How can a smart man deal with a woman who doesn't return a message
1. Like a humorous topic. Every woman has no resistance to a humorous man. If you can make him laugh when he sees your message, then his girlfriend will return your message even if she is angry again, and will forgive you soon.
2. Don't be dogged. Many men will always send messages if their girlfriend does not reply to them. This is not a good way. It will make your girlfriend hate you more. So you must wait until your girlfriend calms down before you send messages to her. Maybe she will reply to your message immediately.
3. Show weakness first. Male chauvinist men are ubiquitous in our daily life. Such men are also the most heartbreaking to women. So even if you are a male chauvinist, you should learn to show weakness, let your girlfriend feel your changes, and then be willing to listen to you and reply to your messages.
4. Don't send him any more messages. When a woman doesn't reply to your message, either he is busy or he doesn't want to talk to you. When he has something to do, he will definitely send you a message later, so you don't need to send him messages all the time. You can't let her go until you expect his reply.
5. Send a red envelope. There is nothing that money can't solve. If you still can't solve it after paying, it can only prove that you haven't spent enough money. The same is true for women. When they don't reply to your message, they will immediately take your red envelope and appear in front of your screen.
Then you can start a conversation with him by sending a red envelope, so as to trigger communication between you without causing an embarrassing situation. Of course, not many girls are willing to accept this move. Everything depends on how you handle it. It depends on people. You should believe it. A perfect relationship often needs to experience a lot of things to grow up.
When a girl doesn't reply to a message, many brothers start to fantasize. They can't help but want to contact a girl, but they are afraid that the other party will ignore them. So, should they send messages when a girl doesn't reply to a message?
Now let's tell you whether to send the message when girls don't reply! High EQ men do this!
1、 Why don't girls reply?
1. I don't know how to reply. I simply don't want to reply
This kind of situation often occurs. Generally, it is caused by the difference in thinking between men and women. Girls tend to be emotional and emotional, while boys tend to be rational and like the way to solve problems. In chatting, for example, girls say that they have stomach pains. Boys will directly give girls more hot water or see a doctor to provide solutions. Girls want words of comfort and care.
Boys' concluding remarks can easily lead to the end of the topic. Girls don't know how to reply, so they simply don't return.
2. Chat content is not interesting and valuable
Generally speaking, girls are dominated by emotions. When chatting with girls, if the topic and atmosphere are always flat, the girls' emotions will not fluctuate, so it is difficult to leave a deep impression on girls' psychology,
For example:
Man: What are you doing?
Woman: Work?
Man: Are you tired?
Woman: Not bad
Man: Oh, what do you do?
F:
3. The purpose of chatting is not pure
Girls are inherently insecure. When chatting with girls, if you always tell them that I like you and so on, they will not think that you are sincere, but that you just want to sleep with her and plot an evil plan. They will take the initiative to keep a safe distance from girls, and naturally will not reply to you.
2、 What should girls do if they don't return information?
1. Timely retreat, keep distance and reduce contact
Generally speaking, when a girl doesn't reply to your message, many of them are not interested in you or begin to hate you. It's useless to rush to confess or even send messages to the other party. Because at this time, the girls have already accumulated a sense of preparedness, and continuing to entangle will only make the other party more disgusted.
The correct approach is to retreat in time and keep a distance from the girls, which will cause the other party a sense of loss of "why didn't he send messages? Did he give up?".
At this time, it is easy to arouse girls' feelings of gain and loss, attract their attention, and pave the way for the next attraction.
2. Implant interested information on the side to show value
If you want to attract the attention of girls, it is far from enough to rely on the gain and loss of girls. You need to implant their interested thoughts from the side to show their value. The specific methods are:
1) Content of the circle of friends
Girls can't always pay attention to your every move, so we need to implant information of interest to each other through places of common concern, such as circle of friends, WeChat group, shared friends, etc.
Generally speaking, we can build our own circle of friends from the following elements that girls are interested in: food, tourism, clothing, fitness, sports, running, pets, star gossip, etc., and show girls' interests in the way of text and pictures.
2) Value building
The display of value is equally important when you implant information of interest in the other side. Only when the value you display is recognized by girls can mutual attraction be generated.
For example:
To show that you get together with good brothers is to show that you have a good attitude towards life and a good circle of friends.
There is no shortage of beautiful women in the party, so as to create the preselection around and show their own value.
In the process of displaying value, do not deliberately. If the other party feels that it is deliberately sent to her, it will make her feel that you are pretending to be "B", hypocritical and lose interest in you.
3. Step by step to establish contact
After we set up the display and value output, if we go directly to talk with girls, we may encounter the situation of being ignored, then we can simply interact through the circle of friends, for example, girls send a circle of friends, comment and interact, so that the relationship between the two people has a sense of connection and familiarity.
Then you can chat with girls, and girls will not ignore you. In short, in this process, you will constantly gain the trust of girls, so that they will not reject you.
At the end, I would like to give you a tip for the follow-up chat: when you are chatting with a girl, do not continue to talk. If you suddenly find a reason to leave, the other person will feel "reluctant" and will look forward to the next chat.
When a woman does not reply to a message, a smart man will take the following measures:
1. Give the other party enough time and space: don't rush to ask why the other party hasn't replied to the message, and don't send messages frequently. Give the other party enough time and space to reply to your message.
2. Don't over interpret: don't guess why the other party didn't reply to the message, and don't over interpret the other party's intention. Try to keep calm and objective, and do not have too much anxiety and pressure due to your imagination.
3. Keep confidence and self-esteem: Don't lose confidence and self-esteem because the other party doesn't reply to the message. Keep self-confidence and self-esteem, believe in your own value and charm, and do not be easily influenced by the other party's behavior.
4. Try to contact actively: If the other party does not reply to the message, you can try to contact the other party actively, such as making a phone call, sending an email, or sending a text message. But be careful not to pursue too much, and not to give the other party too much pressure and trouble.
5. Adjust your attitude and communication method: if the other party has not replied to the message all the time, you may need to reflect on whether your attitude and communication method are wrong. Try to adjust your attitude and communication methods, and communicate with each other in a more sincere, respectful, understanding and inclusive way.
Smart men will try to understand the reasons behind each other's behavior and take appropriate measures to establish a healthier, stable and long-term relationship.
