The most difficult stages of long-distance love are as follows:
1. When they just separated: when two people just separated, they may face a lot of maladjustment and emotional emptiness, and need to spend a lot of time and energy to adapt to the new life.
2. When the other party is not around: when one of them encounters difficulties or needs help, the other party cannot appear at the other party's side immediately and cannot give timely care and comfort, which will make both parties feel powerless and lonely.
3. When communication difficulty increases: due to jet lag, inconvenient communication mode and other reasons, communication between both parties becomes difficult and communication decreases, which may lead to misunderstanding and suspicion, making both parties feel uneasy and anxious.
4. When temptation appears: In long-distance love, individuals will encounter many new environments and people, and there may be some temptation or temptation challenges to test the trust and loyalty of both parties.
5. Fatigue period of long-term separation: If the two parties of a long-distance love are separated for a long time, they may enter a fatigue period. The feelings of the two parties towards each other become indifferent, and the sense of alienation gradually increases, which will make both parties feel powerless and lost.
The difficult stages of long-distance love need the joint efforts and persistence of both parties to overcome difficulties and maintain feelings by strengthening communication, trust, understanding and support.
The difficult stages of long-distance love can be divided into early stage, middle stage and late stage.
As the name implies, long-distance love is the love between two places. The long-distance love itself is the hard mode in the love mode. Friends who have experienced long-distance love should have experienced this pain. So if you start a long-distance love affair because of your studies, work and other reasons, first of all, you should adjust your mind and realize the difference between long-distance love and ordinary love.
Every long-distance love couple has to go through all kinds of hardships. Their love is much harder than those in the same place, but the short meeting is always unforgettable. For long-distance lovers, the most difficult phase of this relationship has three stages, and the second stage is the most difficult. If they successfully survive, love will blossom and bear fruit.
Difficulty of long-distance love
1. Time difference: Due to different geographical locations, the time environment of two people may be very different. This may lead to communication barriers, such as jet lag, conflict between work or study time, etc.
2. Lack of physical contact: Long time separation may lead to the inability of both parties to carry out actual physical contact, which may have a negative impact on feelings.
3. Communication cost: long-distance love needs to keep in touch by phone, SMS, video call and other means, which may increase the cost and pressure of communication. In addition, due to limited communication methods, misunderstanding and poor communication may result.
4. Trust problem: Long term separation may lead to doubts about mutual trust. Trust is the cornerstone of maintaining a stable relationship, and long-distance love may make trust more vulnerable to challenges.
5. Social pressure: lovers in different places may be under pressure from relatives and friends. They may feel that a long-distance relationship is difficult to maintain, or that one party should give up this relationship to pursue a more realistic choice.
How long is the running in period of long-distance love
1. If two people are in long-distance love at the beginning, what is not optimistic about such a relationship? Because two people do not have contact and communication together, there will certainly be many problems. This time is a run in period. During this time, two people will not understand each other, and there will be some conflicts, which usually lasts for two or three months. But if two people get through this difficulty, it shows that they have deep love for each other and may develop slowly.
2. But in this run in period, we need to find some ways to adapt to each other. Although two people cannot meet often, they must keep in touch. If they encounter problems, they must not choose the cold war. It is better to communicate well.
How many stages does a long-distance love experience
The first stage of long-distance love: missing stage
The first stage is missing. You who have just separated will not be used to the days without each other. You begin to miss the days when you stick together every day. Being alone is the hardest. In this stage, you can keep in touch with WeChat every day, share what happens around you every moment, and the scenery you see, and imagine that the other person is around.
The second stage of long-distance love: the stage of disappointment
Gradually you begin to accept the fact that you know the other person is not around you. When you go shopping, you will always be alone. When you eat, you will only buy a single meal. You begin to feel disappointed with your relationship. At this stage, you can find time to meet each other. No matter how far away a long-distance love affair is, don't save travel expenses. Go to see him bravely.
The third stage of long-distance love: the stage of independence
After you are disappointed, you begin to accept this matter and understand that the distance between you is not the biggest question. As long as you put your heart into everything, you can overcome it. Slowly you become independent. If the light bulb breaks, you can repair it yourself. If you want to eat, you can do it yourself. It is even acceptable to go to the movies alone and eat hot pot alone. At this stage, you should encourage each other and give each other enough care.
The fourth stage of long-distance love: the stage of relief
I have been used to being alone and learned to be independent. I can fully accept long-distance love. I know that long-distance love is the greatest test of love. At this stage, you need to set a return date for this long-distance relationship so that both parties can have enough faith to go forward together. Most long-distance lovers face these four stages, and the most can only persist to two stages, because time will kill many emotions, including love. In the face of the ravages of years, what we can do is to hold each other's hands and move forward.
