The longevity of married couples living in different places depends on many factors. The following are some factors that may affect the longevity of married couples living in different places:
1. Communication and trust: communication and trust between husband and wife are the key factors to maintain long-distance relationship. Both sides need to maintain good communication, timely exchange each other's life and feelings, and solve possible problems and misunderstandings. At the same time, both parties also need to establish a trust relationship, believe that the other party can face challenges in life alone, and be honest and loyal to each other.
2. Shared vision and goals: Couples need to work together to develop and pursue a common vision and goals, which can enhance their connection and mutual support. Both parties can discuss future plans and goals, such as common life plans, career goals, family planning, etc., which will help strengthen the cohesion between the couple.
3. Adaptability and flexibility: In living in a different place, couples need to have adaptability and flexibility to cope with possible challenges and changes. For example, one party may need to adapt to the other party's business trip or travel frequency, or find a balance in the lives of both parties.
4. Support and understanding: In living in a different place, couples need to support and understand each other, including providing help and support in life and work, and understanding each other's difficulties and challenges in living in a different place.
5. Independence and autonomy: When living in a different place, couples need to maintain independence and autonomy and be able to face problems and challenges in life alone. At the same time, we also need to respect each other's personal space and lifestyle, and give each other enough space and support.
Whether couples living in different places after marriage can last long depends on the comprehensive influence of various factors. If both parties can maintain good communication, establish trust relationship, jointly pursue common vision and goals, have adaptability and flexibility, support and understand each other, and maintain independence and autonomy, then the long-distance relationship between husband and wife is likely to be long.
Long term marriage between couples in different places is difficult to last.
1. It has the name of marriage, but things are carried by oneself. Because it is a different place, the things that two people can share with each other originally fall on the shoulder of one person. In addition, a long time of living alone without a partner, it is easy to have a negative attitude, which will have an impact on work and life.
If it is a woman, family, children, the elderly, all things need to be faced by one person, at this time, the partner is out of reach in other places, and the phone comfort of the partner when in distress will be more aggrieved. This long-term state will definitely affect the marriage relationship.
2. Emotional and physiological needs are not met. The main purpose of marriage is to accompany. If one party is wronged, maybe a hug from his partner can give him the courage to face difficulties again tomorrow, but this can't be given by a long-distance marriage.
In a physiological aspect, sex is the most basic demand of people, especially for men, the demand for sex is more intense. If a man is not satisfied for a long time, he will go out to look for it. If he seems to be used to living in two different places, his partner needs to pay attention to his movements.
3. The lack of a child's company is a lack of growth process, and can not be made up for. Many children are still young in long-distance marriages. Every time they see a child, they have to re-establish a trust relationship with the child, because after a long time, the child has forgotten the person. Children who grow up in this state are psychologically deficient.
Matters needing attention for couples in different places to maintain marriage:
1. The most important thing between husband and wife is communication. If you can't see each other often, you should make more calls and videos. At least one phone call should be made every day to talk about what happens to each other every day. Since we can't meet each other, daily communication is necessary.
2. Because we can't stay with each other all the time in a different place, it's easy to have some suspicions about whether the other party is carrying me out. Such suspicion and suspicion will destroy the sense of trust between each other. Once there is no trust between husband and wife, the marriage will soon have problems.
3. More people express their feelings to each other. Many couples in different places are too lazy to talk to each other because of the lack of communication. Over time, many grievances become huge negative emotions, which will turn into dissatisfaction with the other half.
Therefore, they should express their feelings to each other more and take each other's feelings seriously. They should not be perfunctory. They should comfort and persuade each other, so that they will be more willing to communicate.
Since you are married, it is better to stay together all the time. Don't separate. After living apart for a long time, both parties will feel empty and lonely. It is inevitable that they will have other ideas. If a third person intrudes at this time, the situation will be even worse. People are emotional animals, and most of them can't stand temptation. Women will feel insecure when they are alone for a long time, and they especially want someone to help them when things happen. In fact, women are more eager for the company of men, asking for help and sharing things with them. If they are separated for a long time, someone suddenly appears in the middle to ask for help, Most women can't resist this situation.
In other words, men are more likely to cheat. As the saying goes, men are lower body animals. This is not nonsense. A person's body cannot vent after a long time. Many men cannot resist other women's posting. So two people had better not separate, for love, for family or mainly put down some things, family is the most important!
Be honest with each other
It is believed that it is the best way to be frank at the beginning. The two men spoke clearly and clearly, listing the problems they might face together in the future, how to solve them, who can help them, and where the bottom line of the couple is. Once it happens, under the existing consensus, immediately respond and eliminate, and small problems will not accumulate day by day, resulting in greater misunderstanding and emotional cracks.
Be considerate of each other
The two sides can not understand each other, which is a contradiction between husband and wife living in two places, and it is inevitable that one side has difficulties for the other. If only we could understand each other. But they don't know how to understand and understand each other. After a long time, they will complain. For example, the woman complains that the man takes care of children and household chores alone. If the woman lives with the man's parents, there will be more problems over time. If the man cannot understand that the woman is not generous, the woman cannot understand that the man works hard for his family. In this way, family problems will accumulate.
Marriage is not easy, and you should cherish it
Whether it's for dreams or for life, sometimes a long-term separation is unavoidable. The process of separation is also a test of mutual feelings and mutual trust. Sometimes patience is the best choice, because marriage needs mutual maintenance and trust. If only one person is waiting for business, it is just making do with it. Marriage is not easy, and we should cherish it.
