The running in period of lovers usually starts after three months of love. At this stage, couples need to gradually adapt to each other's living habits, personalities and values. At this stage, there may be quarrels due to some minor contradictions and frictions, but it is also a process of mutual understanding and adaptation. At this stage, couples need to understand and support each other, respect each other's opinions and choices, and work together to solve problems encountered in order to achieve the goal of mutual adaptation.
It should be noted that each couple's situation is different, and the starting time of the running in period will also be different. Therefore, in the process of love, couples need to adjust and adapt according to their actual situation in order to maintain and develop a good relationship.
How long is the running in period of lovers
1、 Three months of love is a running in period
Three months is a running in period in the process of love. Maybe you were very sweet three months ago. At this time, because you didn't know each other very well, everyone showed the best to each other, so you had a filter for each other. After three months of love, we are slowly getting to know each other. With the deepening of contact and communication, we are slowly releasing our nature in front of each other, and bad habits and bad temper are slowly emerging. This is the time when both parties are most likely to be disappointed with each other. They feel that the other party is different from the people they know before, and they will feel cheated. If both parties are willing to run in with each other at this time, then they can go on slowly. If both parties refuse to give in to each other after three months of love, and feel that the other party is not the person they want to find, then they cannot continue to go on.
2、 Love veteran can see a relationship in three months
As a veteran of love, three months of love is just enough for you to fully understand a person, her good and her bad, because of the previous experience of love life. Everything will experience the accumulation of quantity, and finally cause qualitative change. The same is true of love. When you first met, you felt amazing and nice. After three months, you have had enough contact with her. Surprise continues to add up to love, love slowly adds up to love, love slowly adds up to responsibility, and responsibility adds up to habit. It is not easy to give up a person, nor is it easy to love someone. You will experience a lot of bitterness. When you really decide to get married or break up, it is also because you have experienced many things to understand your inner needs and make natural choices.
3、 Love Xiaobai can't see a relationship in three months
For boys who have a long reflex arc or no love experience, it is not enough time to get to know a girl by the first three months of love. Especially when you meet an experienced lover, you can't see through it for three years.
There is no such thing as an old hand who "knows how to decorate a rough room at a glance". Three days is enough for them to thoroughly analyze whether it is necessary to develop their attitude towards feelings, whether it is male chauvinism or feminism.
How to spend the running in period of love
1. The cold war can't last overnight: two people can't spend the night with anger when quarreling. The cold war hurts the feelings of lovers the most, and two people won't sit down and talk about it together. They just suspect each other here. However, the consequences of suspicion will only hurt feelings, and you can't show your anger by ignoring each other. This is cold violence in love.
2. Don't break up casually: some girls like to force their boyfriends to obey in this way, and many boys just force girls to break up, but you should know that the other side only wants to keep you because they love you, but it is not optional to use love as your weapon to hurt the other side, so when this break in period, you should think about the sweetness and romance of the hot love period, Don't give up a relationship because of impulse.
3. Have their own independent space: although two people are romantic and sweet when they are together, there are always times when they are disgusted with each other. Sometimes, they should keep their own independent space, and each has its own independent space, so that the other will not have so much pressure.
