During a love affair, if the man transfers money to the woman and does not clearly state whether the money is a gift or a loan, the man has no right to ask the woman to return the money after the break up.
However, if the man can prove that the transfer is to pay for the common expenses of the two people, such as rent, utilities, meals, etc., then the man has the right to ask the woman to return the money. In addition, if the man has a clear intention to borrow money when transferring money and the woman agrees to the loan, the man has the right to ask the woman to repay the loan after the break up.
In short, in any case, if the man wants to get the money back, he needs to provide sufficient evidence to prove that the transfer is for common expenses or a loan. If the man fails to provide sufficient evidence, the woman may refuse to return the money.
Love transfer may not be returned after breaking up. If it is a gift, it does not need to be repaid. Some transfers with special significance are generally considered as unconditional gifts to express friendship, such as "520" and "1314" transfers. If it is deemed as a gift with conditions for dissolution for the purpose of living together or concluding a marriage relationship, the property obtained as a result of the gift shall be returned after the parties break up.
If it can be proved that there is a lending relationship, the borrower shall repay the debt according to the agreement. If the borrower is unwilling to repay, the lender can bring a lawsuit to the court. If one party clearly notes the words such as loan when transferring money, or mentions the relevant contents such as loan in the chat record, it is generally considered as a private lending act in law.
The right way to get along during love:
1. Know each other
In love, it is important to know each other. If you don't know what the other party likes or what kind of people they like, you can't get along well with the other party. Therefore, when you start to fall in love, you must make yourself fully understand the other party.
2. Mutual respect
In love, mutual respect is very important. This means that you need to learn to listen to the other person, and be careful not to interrupt the other person easily. At the same time, we should also strive to become a better partner, because if we cannot respect each other, there may be conflicts or even differences between us. Through the principle of mutual respect, lovers can effectively avoid quarrels, misunderstandings and some unnecessary contradictions, thus promoting the development of their relationship to be more stable and smooth.
3. Be frank
If you want the other party to believe that you are sincere, you must first be a sincere person. If there are conflicts and differences between them, it is better to put them aside and solve the problem first.
The money given to the other party during love cannot be returned after breaking up.
1. If two people only love to eat, watch a movie, and give small gifts, they are ordinary gifts from one party to the other, and do not need to be returned.
2. If both parties send red envelopes to each other through WeChat and other social software, it is a kind act of giving favors. It is an act that one party provides materials or services for the other party for free for the purpose of promoting personal friendship or based on good moral habits. There is no legal relationship of rights and obligations between the two parties.
3. If a person borrows money during love, if he has a receipt, he can ask the other person to repay the money with the receipt when he breaks up. If he does not write a receipt, he can also ask the other person to repay the money as long as he has a transfer record.
How to borrow money during love and not return it after breaking up?
1. The written contents of the IOU shall be standardized to avoid litigation risk. Pay attention to the basic information of the IOU, the amount of borrowed money, and the return time.
2. Timely investigate the information of the other party after the other party fails to repay the money. No matter whether a couple has written an IOU or not, due to their feelings, when the other party does not return it, they may indulge and hope to do it again next time.
3. Timely prosecute and resolutely take protective measures. In the case of no result in many negotiations, the only remedy is to prosecute.
How to protect your property during love?
1. Try to be cautious and rational when giving and receiving gifts.
2. For transactions involving large amounts of money, it is better to make a written agreement and try to avoid cash payment. Instead, bank transfer should be adopted and kept well.
