The common way to maintain the relationship between men and women is to chat. In addition to face-to-face chat, you can also use social software. But what happens when girls do not return information after dating? Boys in this situation are a little confused and can only be anxious. Some boys will think that this is the way girls test them. Is it true?
What does it mean that girls don't return messages after dating?
There are two situations when a girl does not return information after a date. If you are a man or woman who has not yet confirmed a love relationship, in this case, the girl's failure to return information means that she refuses you.
If you are a boyfriend and girlfriend who have been dating for a long time, and she doesn't return your information after the date, it is likely that you did something unhappy to her during the date, and she was angry with you!
Or, the relationship between you is too dull, and this girl wants to test whether you really love her. She deliberately snubs you, just to see if you are in a hurry and busy contacting you! At this time, the boy must have vision, and coax her, she will be very happy!
What are the ways for girls to test boys?
If a girl cares too much about a person or a relationship, she will feel insecure. At this time, she wants to test whether the other person really loves her! Of course, girls must be careful when testing boys. Generally speaking, the test is for couples who have been together for a long time. However, couples who have just confirmed their love relationship should not fail the test but break up!
There are several ways for girls to test boys:
1. The girls deliberately snub each other
The way that girls treat each other coldly is not to answer the phone or return messages. Of course, this method is not used casually. There must be an opportunity. Otherwise, if it becomes stiff, you will probably break up!
2. Late for an appointment
In fact, being late for a date usually does not test boys, and boys should also know this test method! Generally, when men and women are dating, girls are late to test each other, which has been badly performed in movies and TV plays!
3. Deliberately say hello to other boys in front of her boyfriend
If a boy hears his girlfriend say this, he will be jealous. If the boy doesn't respond, he generally doesn't love you, or he trusts you too much. He knows you are testing him!
Information is a way of transmission. Now everyone has a mobile phone to make it convenient to contact other people. Of course, there are various chat software on the mobile phone, which can get information faster and more comprehensively. However, sometimes men send messages to women and they don't receive replies. This may be because women deliberately don't reply. In fact, it is also natural that this happens. Many women are unwilling to reply to each other. What is the reason? Does this mean that women want to break off relations with men?
Not interested in what you said
Whether you have just met or known each other for a long time, the above situation may happen. Maybe a woman is not interested in what you say, and she is not in the mood to give you a reply. Many men come up with greetings. Women are tired of listening to greetings. Only some fresh words can stimulate women's interest or curiosity. Every woman has a curiosity in her heart, so men might as well say some nonsense or joke, and then it will be very smooth, and women will not feel disgusted.
I don't like you
Most of the reasons for this happen when you first know or don't know someone. Women feel that it is unnecessary to contact you after they see your person, so when you send her a message, she will definitely not return it to you. The main reason is that you are not the type she likes. Just like blind dates, appearance is always the first criterion for women to test men, When she sees a handsome guy, she will definitely take the initiative to contact him, while when she sees a unattractive man, she will be far away.
Test your heart
If you are lovers who have been together for a long time and she suddenly doesn't return your information, it means that she wants to investigate you and see her position in your heart. At this time, men should not think that she is busy not returning your information. Maybe women deliberately don't return your information. Finally, see if you will call her or look for her everywhere. This is a sign that women want you to care, A man must not give up such a good opportunity. When a woman sees you in a hurry, she will be very happy.
There may be a variety of reasons why girls do not return messages, not necessarily to test your performance. The following are some situations that may cause girls not to reply to messages:
1. Busy: Girls may be busy with work, study or other affairs, and cannot reply to messages in time.
2. Fatigue or stress: girls may feel tired or under a certain pressure, resulting in their temporary lack of energy to reply to messages.
3. Not sure how to reply: sometimes girls may encounter some complicated problems or emotional troubles, and are not sure how to reply to messages.
4. Unexpected situation: girls may encounter unexpected situations, such as cell phone power failure, network problems, etc., resulting in their inability to reply to messages.
5. The dialogue content is not attractive: girls may not be interested in the current dialogue content or feel bored, so they choose not to reply.
If you think that the reason why girls don't reply is to test your performance, you can try the following methods to deal with this situation:
1. Give each other some time and space: respect each other's choices and personal space, and give her some time to reply to messages.
2. Don't over interpret: Don't over interpret the reason why the other party doesn't reply to the message, and avoid excessive behavior or speculation.
3. Send a friendly reminder: If you think the waiting time is too long, you can send a friendly reminder message to ask whether the other party has received your message.
4. Keep calm and rational: Don't be too anxious or emotional because the other party doesn't reply to the message. Keep calm and rational.
5. Direct communication: If you think this girl is important to you, you can directly communicate with her and ask if there are any problems or problems. However, it is important to communicate in a friendly and respectful manner to avoid exerting pressure on the other party.
The most important thing is to respect the other party's choice and space, and maintain understanding and patience. If the other party does not reply for a long time or clearly expresses no interest, then learn to accept and continue to move forward.
