Once boys decide to break up, it is usually difficult to recover.
As a woman, the man really decided to give up irretrievably; Because it can be said for sure that a man never really loved you when he was with you; He just feels a little bit when he is with you, so he wants to leave you;
A person who really loves you cannot choose to leave you; Because he doesn't really love you, it's not easy for him to accompany you for a while; So in his heart, he didn't want to go with you forever; So it is impossible for you to save him.
Men don't love you anymore. There must be a reason
As a woman, the man really decided to give up irretrievably; Because when a man is with you, from love to not love, he must know a lot of bad things about you and know too many of your shortcomings; Maybe your character is bad, maybe your temper is bad; Maybe you are unreasonable, maybe you never know how to respect a person;
Of course, it is more likely that you have had a past, so in the hearts of men, they have a great view of your past; To put it bluntly, it means that he dislikes you, so under such circumstances, he will choose to separate from you; If you save him, you can never change these problems, so he will not turn back naturally.
Once the boys break up, there is no room for recovery. Don't love, don't like, there is a feeling of disgust, that you are not important, at least not to the extent that you do not marry. After weighing the pros and cons, I gave up on you. Do you think there is still room for recovery? Boys say that breaking up is generally a matter of weighing the pros and cons. He can give up you after weighing the pros and cons, which shows that you are not very important to him in his heart. Even if I look back, I will still give you up the next time.
It was only recently that I saw clearly that the doors he had opened to me had been closed one after another when he said goodbye. It seems to be a transparent door, so two years ago I thought I could reach out and touch him. I had been waiting outside the door for two years. This year, I finally knew that these doors would never be opened again, and he was not inside the door. He had already left. I hope you know. Let's go, too. Don't wait. It's not waiting. It's sitting there and letting time pass and not moving forward.
My boyfriend just came to ask me to get back together. After serious discussion, he decided to get back together. I want to say that when a boy says goodbye to you, you just ask him if he has a good idea, and you make it clear that you don't want to break up, but don't make trouble, don't threaten. If he still says goodbye, you agree. If you don't want to give up any more, please bite your teeth and bear with it. Let's listen to your points. Then immediately delete WeChat, QQ and all other contact information, and don't blackmail the phone.
Then you have only two things to do. First, let your pain out first. Cry or make any noise. Don't disturb him or let him know. Second, wait. When he comes back to you. When a boy says goodbye, he must wait for him to come back to you. Otherwise, all you ask is his impatience, even disgust. You will break up again. I know the waiting process is painful, but please promise that I must endure it. Maybe he has not come to you, but during this period of time in the process, you may put it down and be willing to look forward.
If he really still has feelings for you, he will come back to find you. If not, he may not really be worth waiting for, and there will be better people. Although we are reunited now, I don't know when we will break up again, but I will learn not to rely on him so much. In fact, a lot of things are unknown. It's better to live in the present, really. People, obey their hearts!
In a relationship, it is not the boy who proposes to break up, which means that the relationship cannot be retrieved. Whether or not the relationship can be saved depends on the situation under which the boy proposes to break up with the girl. If you are completely disappointed with the girl, there is no room to redeem the relationship; Of course, if he is angry, it will be easy to recover when his anger disappears.
It is normal for men and women to quarrel in love. When a boy breaks up with a girl, whether this relationship can be saved depends on the following two factors.
Whether the boys break up out of anger
When people are angry, they will speak out extreme words, and may act violently if they think they should. For men and women in love, this situation is more likely to occur. When girls make boys angry, boys in anger are likely to break up with girls in order to "severely hurt" them.
Breaking up in such a situation is not the real intention of the boys, but the decision made by the feverish minds at that time. When the boys get over their anger, they will regret their words and wish they could open their mouths. Usually, they would apologize to the girl and ask for the understanding of the other party, so that the relationship between them would be as good as ever.
Whether girls have completely disappointed boys
Apart from such a situation, there is another situation that boys will also break up with girls. That is what girls have done, which has disappointed boys. This kind of thorough disappointment is not achieved once, but accumulated slowly in the process of long-term relationship.
Some behaviors or bad habits of girls may attract boys' aversion. At the beginning, boys will plead with girls. In the end, boys may even lose their mentality of pleading. Looking at the bad things on their girlfriend, they have become numb. After being completely disappointed, she would calmly break up with the other party. In such a case, it is difficult for girls to recover the proposed break up.
Therefore, in a relationship, when a boy proposes to break up, the more impulsive the emotion, the greater the chance of recovery. When the boy calmly proposes to break up, the probability of recovery is almost zero.
