How to be a woman with high EQ? People with high EQ are quite different. People with high EQ tend to have a long history. People with high EQ attach great importance to learning efficiency and seldom do useless and useless work. Let's see how to be a woman with high EQ.
Learn to speak, stop where you can
First of all, learn to keep your voice low enough for the people around you to hear. Your loud voice does not make others think you are generous, but rather you are unqualified and ill educated. The tone and intonation are the comprehensive embodiment of a person's moral cultivation and personal quality. They reflect the level of a person's quality.
In other words, we can see a person's cultivation and connotation from his speech and behavior. What you say, you are what you are. If someone scolds you and you scold him, it is a quarrel. If someone praises you, it is social.
It is also talking. Some people can make people laugh and others can make people jump. This is the ability to speak. Women with high emotional intelligence will not talk without breaking the rules, revealing the truth, gossiping, and gossiping behind their backs. We all know that men love face. In everything, we should keep our mouth open and we should know how to stop.
Elegant in all aspects, will come
Very popular, very popular, can be said to be all men, women, old and young. Usually, they have built a good "mass base", so they can always find the right and left, so that they will not be in a disadvantageous position any longer. This is a woman with high emotional intelligence. On the other hand, some people are very capable of doing things. They are all princess disease, unreasonable, do not know how to look at the situation, and speak without thinking.
Don't give the other party face, or even make the atmosphere in embarrassment. We will pick a bone in the egg with you for every little thing and argue endlessly. Who will like this kind of girl? We don't live to make anyone like her, but it is a kind of personality charm to be liked by others. We should strive to become better and make ourselves better people, so that we can be respected by others.
Complete personality and independent spirit
Women with high EQ should have complete and independent personality. It does not depend on anyone economically. A solid economic foundation is necessary to maintain self dignity. Through economic independence, you can enjoy the satisfaction of success. "I will support you when I get married." Many women especially want men to say that. I want to say, "If you can support me, then I will try my best to earn money and do what I want to do." A person has no ability to live on her own. She places all her hopes on others. Such a woman is also the least confident. She has no sense of security and likes suspicion.
Spiritual independence has never been a man's accessory. She will not get entangled in a deteriorated relationship and cannot extricate herself. She knows how to enrich her heart and love herself well through making friends, reading and entertainment. A woman with high emotional intelligence will have high demands on herself and will not let herself compromise and choose a scum man for money. They know more about what they want and will constantly improve themselves to pursue what they want.
Love reading and constantly improve yourself
Everyone is not perfect and has shortcomings and advantages. Only by continuous learning and hard work can we become more and more excellent. "A woman who loves reading can never speak too poorly" "When she reads too much, her appearance will naturally change. Many times, she may think that many books she has read have become a thing of the past and are no longer remembered. In fact, they are still in the underlying temperament
It is limitless in speech and mind, but it may also be revealed in life and words. " This is Sanmao's interpretation. "In your temperament now, there are the roads you have traveled, the books you have read and the people you have loved." These are all praise for scholars. It can be seen that you want to improve your EQ and become better and better. Read more books. Reading good books is the best shortcut.
Be kind to others and lend a helping hand
Please be a kind person. Emotional intelligence is very comfortable in many cases. Being kind to others means being kind to yourself. Sometimes it can help us. So being a kind person will make us much more convenient. The improvement of EQ is obtained from kindness, if it is a super bad person.
In my opinion, his intelligence and emotional intelligence are not worth a penny. Kindness makes EQ more meaningful. Willing to help others. Be able to let go of the things at hand, stop to pay attention to others from time to time, and extend a helping hand to people in difficulty, instead of completely immersing yourself in your own small world. If we can do this, we will be loved by people around us.
More contact with people with high EQ
We should get in touch with people with high EQ, become friends with them, learn from them, and learn their ways of dealing with people. As the saying goes, "Those who are close to others will be black." Only by constantly improving your ability and learning from others with an open mind can you improve your EQ. If possible, you can participate in relevant training activities and social communication activities, such as public welfare activities, and practice your EQ skills every bit of your daily life.
Reasons for the decrease of women's EQ and IQ in love
1. Expect too much
In love, people's two basic mental states require additional consideration: first, there is no reason to be accepted by others; Second, the most important thing in the heart of the person you love most, the more depressed or immature the person is, the easier it is to rely on the other party to support your sensitive sense of personal value.
Inadvertently, expect the other party to accept you and put you first at any time without reason; The more insecure a person is in his state of mind, the more he will double the rules for his lover in the future.
2. Past feelings
For example, if you were ignored in the original family in the past, now you will inadvertently require your lover to keep you focused; In the native family, if you are too strict, your lover will be required to let you have indoor space.
How to be a woman with high EQ in love
1. Learn to control your mind
We should have a positive attitude and control our own attitude. If everything is good, we should not only think about it, but also look at everything rationally.
2. Undoubtedly, the other side's advantages
Everyone's deep desire is to be unquestioned and praised. Therefore, it is not necessary to be stingy about your own praise. You should have eyes that are good at spotting the bright spots of the other side. In this world, there is no more beautiful and pleasant language to check your own praise.
3. Fairness and importance
The real guarantee is mutual fairness. Even if two people are in love, they are still separate individuals and still have different ideas. It is only appropriate to ensure mutual understanding and attention to the other party, not comment on some irrelevant habits of each other, and not force the other party to make changes to themselves, so that the love period will be more happy.
4. Don't let your boyfriend guess your thoughts
Women with high EQ will immediately express their meaning, rather than let their boyfriends guess. When dealing with a boyfriend, never take out the whole set of friends. When you say everything at once, boys will learn to be considerate gradually.
5. Understand the difference between women and men
At that time, most men focused on solutions, while women focused on feelings and attitudes. When people were discussing some management decision-making issues, men would look indifferent, but I think they just wanted to establish a reasonable solution.
Women will feel sad because of the indifference of boys, feel that they are not highly valued, and finally fall into an infinite circle. If women can learn to understand boys' feelings well or are not so sensitive, they can prevent such problems from appearing.
How to be a woman with high emotional intelligence
1. Women with high EQ can accurately analyze the situation of things and the advantages and disadvantages of different approaches when doing things, so when encountering difficulties, they can use conditions that are favorable enough but not unacceptable to the other party, thus making the other party "yield" and "comply".
2. Women with high EQ are always popular and attractive. It can be said that men, women, old and young take everything. We have built a good "mass base" at ordinary times, so when things happen, we can let others lend a helping hand when it is critical. Therefore, they can always find both sides of the coin, so that they will not be in a disadvantageous position at any time.
3. A woman with high EQ knows how to love her and how to win over a man. As the saying goes: Use softness to overcome hardness. But don't always, everything is good.
4. Women with high EQ are good at tolerance. There are no people and things in the world who cannot bear, let go, avoid, and bear. Only people who are considerate and have a small heart. Of course, it is not to lose the principle and bottom line, but to control the essence of self-discipline in the communication between good people, relax the mentality, and find that the prime minister is not so difficult to do.
5. Women with high EQ should have a sense of responsibility and responsibility. They should not shirk responsibility. They should take positive responsibility to solve the problem. They can not make commitments easily, but they must do what they say. The more responsibility, the more ability.
6. Women with high EQ know how to make others care about themselves. Never read a man's mobile phone messages, check posts, follow up, or make a man feel that he cares about her very much. Let him take the initiative to care.
7. A woman with high EQ will not entangle herself in a deteriorated relationship. If a man is sorry for you, please resolutely break up. The reason for breaking up will be based on personality incompatibility. If you break up gently, it is just a pity in the world. Leave more regrets for men. Regret has always been a beautiful scenery in men's hearts.
