If chasing a girl makes you feel tired, I believe no one will insist.
1、 People's patience is limited. If it reaches the limit, it will collapse. If there is no return for my efforts, then I don't want my efforts to become a burden to others.
2、 There is nothing wrong with loving someone. I love you with all I have. I didn't ask you to love me, but please don't hurt me.
3、 If chasing a girl makes you feel tired, let's give up. There was not so much success in life. Now that we have worked hard, although we have not been rewarded, we will look back one day and have no regrets. Life is to learn to be mature and know what is worth while trying. Since it is not our emotion, why should we pursue and waste our youth and time. It is your time that belongs to you. It is not your demand that cannot come. Emotions must respect each other. People who do not respect your feelings do not deserve your love.
Sometimes it is a very hard thing to pursue a person. After all, I insist on it alone. If the other party's response is good, if it is a slow and hot type, it is likely that the boy will feel very depressed and even more distressed. Should he give up at this time?
Here are three ways to tell if you should continue this relationship.
1. What is the attitude of girls towards you
Love or doing other things need hope. If there is no hope, it will lose the meaning of persistence. So whether you want to persist in the pursuit of girls or not, girls' attitude towards you is particularly important. If girls do not express their love for you clearly, their attitude towards you is positive and friendly, It proves that you still have a good feeling in her heart, so you can try again for yourself, or make a tentative confession to the girl.
If girls show their boredom with you, then there is no sense of persistence at this time. Love is not begged. Reluctance will not bring happiness. It's better to break up and start a new relationship.
2. Whether the method of chasing girls is correct
In the process of pursuing girls, we should also constantly check ourselves to see whether our method of pursuing girls is correct. Some boys will make some basic mistakes, such as clinging to girls or not caring enough for girls. If you find that girls' feedback is not positive, you should consider whether you are wrong in chasing girls, so that you can correct it in time. For example, some girls especially like the type of warm man, but you are careless everywhere, and naturally won't please her. At this time, you should change your strategy in time and pay more attention to girls in life. Some girls are very realistic, but you show a naive look in front of her, and naturally won't let girls like you. Therefore, a true heart needs to be matched with the right method to achieve success.
3. What's the difference between yourself and girls
Sometimes when we face the girl we like, we will be moved and want to catch her, but it is also very important to face the reality. Boys and girls need to get along well with each other. If the gap is too big, two people are not suitable. If they are forced to get together, there will be various conflicts in the future. So we should always consider how much the gap between ourselves and girls is. If the gap is not too big, We can try our best to make up for this gap. If the gap is too big, we might as well let it go in time. Girls want to find a stronger boy so that they can find a sense of security. So we should measure whether we can give girls enough sense of security.
If you chase her for a long time and use various ways, she doesn't promise to be with you. Maybe she doesn't like you, or you can't impress her by the way you chase her. I think you should first understand her preference before chasing her, so as to suit the remedy to the case. If you still like her and are really tired after catching up with her, you can let yourself have a rest first, and then see if you want to continue chasing after charging. Imagine if you are tired and exhausted after this girl. Either the girl doesn't like you at all, or the girl is not considerate at all. Maybe there are many spare tires. Even if you catch such a girl, it depends on coincidence. Maybe you will catch up with her when an opportunity comes. Otherwise you won't think about it. Or even if we catch up, we will not be happy together and will still be tired.
You don't like her enough, maybe she doesn't have enough attraction. When your girlfriend is not attractive, it is difficult for you to burst out of passion from the bottom of your heart. When there is no passion in a relationship, both parties will feel very tired. Not only like a person, no matter what you do, your passion is not enough, or this thing is not attractive to you, you will feel tired. If you really love your girlfriend and fall in love with her, you will remember my words - don't say you are tired until you see the chair.
However, she has other choices, she can not choose you, so she will look at you with a critical eye, which will increase the difficulty of your next pursuit. Never return for a second, or return after a few hours, or do not return directly. Do not chat in a serious way. The circle of friends is often updated, where to travel, or eat with friends, or some of the others in the circle of friends suggest that you are being chased, and your life is very rich. If she chats with you at 12 o'clock and asks you what to do, you can say that you eat out with friends, or sing songs, bars, and so on. Even if you are not such a person, you should act like this.
