Boys must not give everything when chasing girls. Even if they like it very much, they must learn to stop it in time. They must understand the girl's reaction in the process of continuous pursuit. When there are many signals or signs, it means that you can't get her anymore. So as a boy, you must learn to understand these information, Otherwise, it is likely that your own image will be very disgusting in the eyes of girls, leading to the direct breakdown of your relationship.
Then when you have been chasing a girl for a long time, but there is no substantial progress, and the girl has not given any response and commitment, you can give up directly, because the girl may not have any feelings for you, and will not give you any opportunities, even if you go after it again, Generally, if you haven't made any substantial progress in chasing a girl for about three months, you can have a period of reflection. If it is your own problem, you can change it. If it is because of the girl, you can give up directly, Because what you have been pursuing will only consume your own energy and make you feel uncomfortable, and you will not get the results you want.
Another message is that you have always invited her to date, but she didn't accept it once, or even didn't give you a chance. This is also a very clear message that he doesn't have any feelings for you and doesn't want to give you any opportunities. In the face of such information, you can simply give up choosing other girls, If the girl likes you and has feelings for you, she will definitely know you better through every date. If she refuses you directly, it is better not to continue. Another key point is that she did not respond positively to your information, but she fully accepted any amount you spent, which means that she is using you unilaterally. Although you can make appropriate emotional contributions, if you pay blindly without any recognition and commitment, it means that all your efforts have been wasted, It also means that you can stop pursuing her directly.
It's hard to understand women's mind when they don't want to chat with you. They say that women's heart is a needle in the sea, so you can't touch women's heart. When women don't want to chat with you, they will have these performances. Let's see the performance of women who don't want to chat with you.
1. Intermittent reply to you
In life, if you chat with a person who is important to you, you generally dare not snub him. Because the other person is important to you, you will worry about leaving a bad impression on her and affecting your relationship. The same is true in relationships. If a girl cares about you, she will also concentrate on chatting with you and try to avoid giving you a bad feeling in chatting. On the contrary, if she doesn't feel anything about you,
She doesn't need to care about how you feel about her. In other words, she doesn't want to talk to you at all. So she will talk to you when she is really bored. When she finds something interesting or someone interesting, she will not reply to your message directly. After several rounds, you will feel that she has replied to you intermittently.
2. Find various reasons to end the chat
When people talk to her, they often hear that she wants to end the conversation for various reasons, such as: I went to eat, I went to play games first, I want to take a bath, etc
Even if you tell her that you can talk after she is busy, you can never wait for the day when she takes the initiative to talk to you. It seems that she is always busy.
In fact, the reason why she is like this is that she doesn't want to chat with you. If a girl has you in her heart, even if she is at work, she can't help but find time to chat with you in the interval of laziness. On the contrary, if a girl doesn't want to chat with you, even if she has plenty of time, she doesn't want to waste time on you.
3. Often deliberately chat to death
No one wants to chat with a person they hate. If the person keeps sending you messages, you will find ways to stop him, and even you may directly blackmail. If a girl doesn't want to chat with you and you send her a message, she thinks the same way, so she will deliberately kill the conversation, making you feel that it is boring to chat with her, so she won't send her messages again.
When chatting, what are the girls' "uninteresting" behaviors to you, and all of them should leave immediately?
Do you often encounter this situation when you talk to a girl? No matter what you talk to her, she doesn't seem to want to return you. If you ask too many questions, she will think you have a problem. One sentence will block you to death. You use her as your lover, but she thinks you talk too much. It is obvious that she doesn't like you. How can she obtain sweet happiness after pursuing perfection like that? But for the sake of the future happiness of many brothers, I would like to share the three main behaviors that girls are not interested in you when chatting today. All of them should withdraw immediately.
1. Be quiet
Sometimes I can't chat with girls without success. It's really not your fault. It's not that I am a straight man of iron and steel who is not easy to find topics to chat with, nor that the time you choose to chat is wrong. It's that she has no idea about you at all. When she likes a person, the topic discussion should be endless, just like Ziwei and Erkang. But talking with her has become the biggest difficulty at this stage, No matter what you talk to her, she doesn't seem to want to talk to you very much. Even if she replies to me, she will use such perfunctory ways to reduce the time of chatting with you. Obviously, she doesn't like you, so she naturally doesn't want to have too much contact with you. Therefore, in this case, the best way to deal with it is that long pain is better than short pain. You can settle with her.
2. Chat often has no end
What you don't like most when chatting with others is having a beginning but no end. You feel that you have just finished talking and are waiting for the other person to respond with full expectation, but the other person is not ready to talk with you again. A girl who feels that she cares about you in her heart will say a very clear conclusion to you after the chat, such as "good night dream", "goodbye", etc. A woman who doesn't like you and only uses you as a spare tire will often have no end when chatting with you. For example, she said she went to take a bath, which would last for several hours or even one night. She never asked you to reply after taking a bath that it was over. She will respond to the data you send later based on her feelings. It is understandable that you can talk once or twice. It is the same in every chat, which means that you have always been in her heart to say that she is a dispensable person.
3. Pretend not to understand you
You see, those girls with high emotional intelligence like to make a joke when chatting with them. You really don't want to say it. Sometimes it works. When you like a person and feel sorry for yourself, you can test it in a joking way. The girl who likes you will naturally get stuck with you. The girl who doesn't like you may pretend to be unintelligible. So from this point, We can also tell what girls think of you. If she doesn't like you, no matter what kind of joke he makes and how clear he makes it, she will pretend to be confused. Don't insist on such a thing.
