In our daily interactions with others, it is inevitable that we will have conflicts with others. Sometimes, our patterns or attitudes in our interactions with others will lead to annoying situations. If a person hates himself, how can we restore the normal relationship with others?
1. Sincerely prepare gifts:
If the other person already hates you and shows that he or she is far away from you, he or she can prepare a small gift for the other person. Everyone likes to receive gifts. Maybe the other person will become soft hearted because of the gift, and reconsider your relationship.
2. Actively admit mistakes:
When you find that the other party hates you, find out the reason in time. If it is really your own fault, then take the initiative to admit your own mistake and try to correct it. Give others the impression that they dare to take responsibility, so as to give trust again.
3. Open conversation:
If the relationship between the two parties is important to you, you should have an open conversation with the other party after you know that the other party hates you, open up the problem knot, and clarify the reasons for the conflict between the two parties. At the same time of sincere conversation, both parties understand each other and change their understanding of each other.
4. Find someone to be a lobbyist:
If you are embarrassed to find the other party to restore the relationship, you can find a person who is very familiar with both parties. As a lobbyist of both parties, you can convey your ideas to the other party through the mouth of the lobbyist, so as to ease the relationship between both parties.
5. Help the other party solve problems:
If the other party hates himself and he wants to restore the normal relationship between them, he can understand what problems the other party has in life, work and other aspects. If his ability allows, he can help the other party as much as possible, and find ways to close the relationship between the two parties, so as to eliminate the other party's dislike of himself.
How to shut up people who hate you? Understand that EQ is not only about being kind and friendly with others, but also about how to deal with conflicts and negative emotions.
1. Take a deep breath and keep calm: If you meet someone who hates you and wants to express opinions or opinions to you, you need to calm down and listen to them patiently. At this time, you can try to relax yourself and keep calm by taking deep breath.
2. Respect the other party but don't agree: you can show respect for the views of the other party, such as "thank you for sharing your views", but don't fully agree with their views. At the same time, there is no need to try to change their minds.
3. Smile from the heart: give the other person a real smile, even if you may disagree with them, which can ease the tense situation and also make you show high EQ.
4. Keep a distance but be polite: try to distance yourself from the other person. Sometimes this small action can reduce unnecessary conflict and tension. In any case, be elegant and polite.
5. Give affirmation and praise: try to pay attention to some common points between you and others, and try to give them affirmation and praise. This may gradually change the attitude of annoying people.
6. Leave or end the conversation: if you feel embarrassed or uncomfortable, you can gently tell the other party that you need to be busy with something or listen to your favorite music to think. Of course, you can also end the conversation politely.
How to make people who hate you look better can refer to the following points:
1. First of all, we should reflect on our own behavior. Is it because we did something bad that caused the other party to hate us. If it is because of your improper behavior, you can apologize to the other party and promise that you will not make the same mistake again in the future.
2. To improve the other party's impression of you, you can change the other party's view of you through some practical actions. For example, you can help the other party do more things within your power, or provide some help that the other party needs.
3. Keep a positive attitude and don't let the other person's dislike affect your mood. You can participate in more social activities, expand your circle of communication, let more people know you, and also communicate with some like-minded people, which can make your mood more pleasant.
4. Respect the other party and do not attack or slander the other party. You can listen to each other's ideas and opinions and understand their feelings, so that they can feel your respect and concern.
5. Communicate with the other party to understand the other party's views and grievances. If there are reasonable suggestions, you can accept them modestly. If the other party's behavior is unreasonable, you can also appropriately express your ideas and positions, but you should pay attention to the proper use of words and not be too excited or emotional.
To make people who hate you change their outlook, you need to start from yourself, reflect on your own behavior, improve the impression of others on yourself, maintain a positive attitude, respect each other and communicate with them.
