How to deal with villains with high EQ? Here are five suggestions that can help you better get along with villains, while not letting yourself suffer.
Each of us doesn't like villains, and we hope to keep a distance from villains. We don't want to provoke him or ourselves. But sometimes we have to work together with villains. What should we do? I hope the following 5 suggestions can help you.
1. Understand him
You should observe him, analyze him and understand him through various dimensions. Sometimes, you should even find a senior or friend who understands him better to understand what kind of personality this person is and what kind of negative behaviors this person will have on what matters. Some people are petty thieves, some people are petty reporters, and some people just can't see you. They are the villains who want to make evil moves for you. There are many kinds of villains. The more you understand him, the less you will touch his taboo. Even in some points, he can inspire him. He will even thank you from the heart, so he will not be against you. So we should see through him first.
2. See through but don't tell through
Especially in public places, where there are many people, we should save face for each other. Even if we know that the other party is trying to take advantage of this aspect, or wants to make someone's small report bigger, we can't fully understand it. We don't need to mess around with the other party, or meddle in other people's affairs, because this is the characteristic of villains. Don't provoke him. If you provoke him, he will stick to you like a dog's skin plaster, so that you can't uncover it.
3. Let villains know your principles, your bottom line, and your strength at the right time
Some villains just pinch the weak persimmon when they see him. You can't be too weak in front of him. You can accept any harm you show. The more you do this, the more he rides on your head to bully you. So you should timely let the other party see your bottom line, your principles, and even some aspects that you can never touch. Show the other side some power and color.
4. Support with a good attitude
If the villain makes a stumbling block for you, but you believe that over time, it will disappear, the truth will surface, and you can prove your innocence, then why bother with him? When you believe in the power of time and the power of truth, you can always treat all people and things in front of you with a better attitude. Then the villain looks very low in front of you. He thinks nothing can hurt you.
5. Don't fight with villains
Don't spend too much time on villains, because the more you do this, the easier it is to lower yourself to a lower situation, make yourself feel bad, and it is difficult to do a better job. Instead, when villains are gossiping, you should try to focus on doing a better job in a more efficient, safer and sustainable way, and bring out the facts, achievements and results. The facts can prove everything, and who is on the right track. These facts can make more people understand you, and at the same time, let villains beat themselves.
