There are many minefields that can't be stepped on during a blind date, otherwise the other party will say goodbye to you. So how to chat on blind date? What mistakes must we not tread on when dating?
1. Say ambiguous words too early
Before they know each other well, they begin to call each other "wife, baby, dear", etc. Saying these ambiguous terms too early will make the other party feel that you are frivolous, or even make the other party feel that you are not serious.
2. Account checking chat
Two people are old enough to date together. Who likes to preach? I was once lectured by my parents, and I was bored to death by my teachers. If I come here today, I will be more like you and be a teacher, which will make them very upset. So don't always tell others about life management philosophy.
5. Accustomed to spreading negative emotions
Some people have experienced a lot of frustrations. They often talk about the past. Although the past experiences can enlighten people, you say that you hate them so much. Does the other party come to blind date or listen to inspirational stories? So don't keep saying "God is unfair, bad luck, talent is not met", which will make the other person depressed, and negative emotions can be contagious.
The above five points are the misunderstanding of chatting during a blind date. There are still many speaking skills to pay attention to. Once you step on some minefields, your position in the other party's mind will fall sharply, and the blind date will fail.
