There are a lot of taboos about greeting people. Otherwise, it is easy to be annoying or even hateful. Because everyone is very concerned about their own name, which is a person's face and brand, we must pay attention to the taboo of appellation when we meet and greet people.
1. Wrong address and name of the other party
How to say hello to people? For example, some surnames are polysyllabic. As a surname, it is another way of reading. Some people don't know it. They call it wrong at the beginning, which will be particularly embarrassing. It will make others think you are uneducated and impolite. For example, common family names: "Shan" is read as a family name (shan), "Query" is read as a family name (zha), and "Gai" is read as a family name (ge). If you don't look up similar surnames and mispronounce them, they will feel that you are particularly impolite.
2. Don't use your own experience to infer the other party's title
If you think that the other party is married based on your preconception, you can call it "what lady". If the other party is not married, it will make the other party feel very embarrassed. So don't call each other based on your own past judgment.
3. Make others misunderstand by using regional style address
For example, Shandong people like to call their friends "buddies", but in the eyes of southerners, you will regard them as your younger brother and as your migrant workers. For example, if you ask someone for directions in Beijing, it is no problem to call them "Shifu", but if you call someone "Shifu" in the south, they will understand it as a monk.
4. Call some outsiders in the way of their own industry
5. Use vulgar and inferior titles
The use of vulgar and low-grade titles will make people think that you are unprofessional and that you are not of high grade. For example, when you first meet someone and call them "brother, brother, sister, younger sister, younger brother", sometimes the other person will feel a little overused, or even a little numb. The other person will feel that you have no professional quality and look very vulgar.
6. The appellation of a malicious nickname
Everyone doesn't want others to add their own names, let alone give him nicknames, even malicious and discriminatory nicknames. For example, if the other party is bald, you can call the other party "bald", and if the other party is tall, you can call the other party "stupid". The other party will not only feel uncomfortable after giving others a malicious nickname, but more importantly, let others hear the roar of laughter, and the other party will face unnecessary embarrassment. Therefore, giving others a malicious nickname is very uncivilized.
Don't be afraid of addressing people. Especially when you first meet someone, it's very important to make a good first impression. Sometimes a reasonable address can not only make you more popular, but also make the other person feel friendly and more willing to contact you.
