What are the taboos in chatting? When chatting with others, they must not want to hear what others want to hear. Generally, there are six taboos that cannot be touched. Otherwise, it will offend people to say one more word. So what are the taboos in chatting? Let's learn about the six most taboo words in chatting.
The first kind: but what
Do you often hear when others give you advice or make comments on you, and always hear such words: Although you do well, you have some problems. What are your shortcomings. Such words are unpleasant. Although the part I listened to just now was quite pleasant, I suddenly came here, but at a turning point, my mood went down sharply. So we usually need to develop a good way of expression. You can answer this way: you have done a good job, and it would be better if you did something else. If you will be better and so on. In this way, it is more acceptable to use the juxtaposition of "simultaneous" and "if" than the turning point.
Second, it's impossible. It's not feasible
When you don't agree with others' opinions, you directly say to the absolute party: This is impossible, it won't work. This is equivalent to directly attacking the other party's enthusiasm for expression. The other party wants to communicate with you. You shut people out at once, blocking the flow of all information. This is not the right way of communication, that is, it hurts the other party's feelings, but also affects two-way communication with the other party. So even if you really can't accept the other party's opinions, you should not use such an expression. You can use another expression, such as: this is too difficult, which no one in our industry can do. Such an expression will make the other person not feel that you hurt him.
The third kind: I don't understand what you are talking about
If you don't understand, you can confirm with the other party or ask for advice. You can't directly deny that I don't understand what you are talking about. This is to blame the other party directly, which insults the other party and blocks the flow of information from the other party again. Such words represent a negation of the other person's personality, not just a negation of language.
Fourth: focus directly
Some people are impatient. They can't listen to others and just talk about the key points, so they don't want to talk to you anymore. After a good normal communication, you suddenly say "direct focus" as if you are impatient with others, which is also an artificial negation of the other party. So we should take some patience to listen to the other party's words, and at the same time, we should repeat and confirm with the other party.
Fifth: I know, I've heard
Even if the other party has mentioned this news, you know you have heard it, but don't express it directly. This will discourage the other party's enthusiasm. The other party is not willing to tell you any important good news in the future, because you are afraid of hitting him again. So when someone shares new news with you, even if you know it, don't reply directly to me. You can reply "thank you" to express your thanks. Such a statement will make the other party feel that they have said something valuable.
Sixth: I am such a person
Some people have such a mantra that they always say "I am such a person" or "I have no way to speak, you should bear more" before or after speaking. It's like giving a military order to the other party. If you want to hurt the other party, let the other party catch it. So even if you have some forthright personality in this aspect, don't always emphasize it, because if you are so forthright, the other person won't listen to your words that hurt him every day.
The above is a common taboo for chatting. I hope everyone can master chatting skills, become a social expert, and become a person who everyone wants to communicate with.
