Is there any routine for capturing women's hearts? People are born with their own feelings and desires, and women are no exception. If you want to capture a woman's heart, you must master some skills. So what are the ways to capture women's hearts? Here's a move to let you easily capture women's hearts.
The frame mode in pursuit is the basic thinking mode in pursuit of relationships, which is determined by the relative value and needs of you and women. Generally speaking, the framework determines the relationship mode between you and women, and determines who plays a leading role in the relationship development process. After understanding these, we should know that only after building a strong framework can we gain the leadership in the development of gender relations. If we upgrade the framework again to control the hyperframework, we can gain absolute initiative. In this way, when a woman tries to waste test us or use the framework to trap us, we can use the hyperframework to overcome the hardness and get the key to her heart. So how to build a superframe?
1. Building a Hyperframe
It is necessary to establish your own super framework. If you do not establish your own super framework, women will help you define it. If you let a woman define it, she will dominate the way you get along with her. She will think that you will be very obedient to her, but this will also quickly reduce your attractiveness. Finally, you may get a good person card. Therefore, when dealing with women, we should maintain four principles: not deliberately pleasing each other, not without reason to expose the sense of need, not without conditions to accept the requirements, and timely adjust the framework.
2. Determine the hyperframe in advance
Before you associate with the girl you like, you'd better determine your own super frame at the beginning. If you haven't defined the super frame, you'd better determine it when you plan to pursue her. Determining the super frame means that you are ready to stop being friends with a woman, but when you want to turn her into your girlfriend, you should always remind yourself that no matter how you get along with a woman, the thinking mode of your relationship with her should be: you are her prize, she is trying to be liked by you, and she is recognized by you. To determine the hyperframe in advance is to show that you are not interested in her, will not pursue her attitude, and must show it before she has the opportunity to choose whether to accept you. Otherwise, once a girl perceives your thoughts, she will have the right to choose, and you will become the passive side.
3. Building a framework in a hyperframe
The framework is subordinate to the super framework, so while we maintain our own framework, we also need to adjust the framework according to the feedback of the other party. You can reconstruct the framework, which is to redefine the framework of women. For example, when the other person notices that you are interested in her and asks if you like her, you need to break the framework and redefine it in time. You can say to him: If I want to chase you, I will definitely go around you every day, but you deliberately say that I like you, which is not a good way to attract me. Maybe it will be better if you are more feminine. In addition to redefining the frame, you can also stretch the frame, that is, expand the original frame to include the girls' test frame. For example, what is your favorite confession scene when you ask a girl? The girl replied that no one ever confessed to me. This is self suppression in waste testing. If you follow her words and express regret, the test fails. You can answer this way: "Nothing before doesn't mean nothing now. I mean, if someone confesses to you, what is your favorite scene of confessing?"? By adjusting the framework in a timely manner to integrate the framework of girls, we can maintain the stability of the super framework, and when these frameworks are used in the relationship with girls, it is easy to activate the atmosphere.
Two points should be noted for the framework:
1. The framework needs value support. A worthless framework is a paper tiger, no matter how powerful it is, it is useless. For example, a beggar said to the people who came and went, "I want a thousand yuan, don't give it if you don't have one." This is really a framework that can attract some people's curiosity. But normal people don't give a beggar a thousand yuan, but they will be disgusted with her. In contrast, if you do not establish value in the minds of girls, the framework will have no effect. Values are embodied from one's three perspectives, including self-confidence, humor, courage, responsibility, ambition, etc. These are all high values. But these high values can only be reflected through words and deeds. In addition, deeds can help redefine the framework, so the framework needs value to support.
2. The superframe is maintained as a whole. As the saying goes, when things get extreme, they will turn against each other. Therefore, controlling the hyperframe does not require us to keep strong all the time.
On the one hand, the purpose of controlling the super framework is to expose his sense of need early, and on the other hand, to control the development of the relationship. When a man shows high value and the framework is strong enough, he can show his charisma and charisma. Women are more likely to enter your framework and open their hearts to you.
