You can talk about the weather, work and social hot spots! Try to relax and don't make the chatting atmosphere too tense!
This belongs to the social category, and is also a kind of emotional intelligence performance. Some people are very suitable for socializing, and also like socializing! Some people are very upset about this. In fact, these are the experiences we have all experienced in life, and they are inevitable. Try not to have psychological pressure and overcome resistance!
Good at finding topics. If several people chat together and everyone feels speechless, it is boring. At this time, if someone who is good at finding topics joins in, it can break the awkward situation and enliven the conversation atmosphere. Looking for topics can start from the following aspects.
① Find common ground. Some people are very good at finding common ground from the participants in the chat, and thus lead to topics. The colleague can talk about some business problems, the colleague can talk about the company, and the old classmates can recall the situation of reading together. People of similar age, physical condition and family situation will also have many similarities. Look for topics from common ground and talk speculatively. The more "chatting", the more right.
② Use local materials. Any event on the chat site can be used as a topic. The problem is to be good at finding. For example, calligraphy and painting on the wall, books on the shelf, mottos on the table, a tree, a flower... local materials, handy, often "chat" easily.
③ Follow your interest. If you want to chat according to your own wishes, and finally achieve a certain goal, it is a trick to follow the interest into the topic.
Anyway, it is also to find topics, but pay attention that the other party should be interested. The following is a brief classification. After all, it seems that you are interested in others and should establish a positive image of yourself.
First, use past events to find topics.
20. What a coincidence! I just wanted to talk to you. I dreamed about you last night, but I was so happy. Guess what we did? (Open the topic with suspense)
Yesterday I watched XX TV/movie/novel. I found that XX in it looks like you. Have you seen it? Do you watch this kind of TV? What kind do you like to see? (Start with what the other party likes)
Did you scold me last night? I always sneeze.. (Simple and direct humor)
The second kind: use the current things to find the topic.
Create coincidence. I just wanted to find you something, but I met you. Do you think you have a heart to heart?
Praise each other. MG, when I saw you suddenly, I felt that my heart was suddenly irregular. It seems that you are more beautiful today.
Deliver something. Today is XX day, let me give you something. Although not valuable.
The third is to use future events to find topics. Pay attention to what the other party is interested in.
Use leadership to find topics.
Use each other's affairs to find topics.
Use other people's things to find topics.
I can't remember much about the specific humor style, but it's all about it. Of course, if both parties have feelings, there is no need to say anything. She will be happy whatever you say.
