No one will hate the person who takes the initiative to greet him, unless he has a special dislike for you. Even if he has a special dislike for you, regular greeting will gradually improve the relationship. Although he does not greet you, it does not mean anything. Maybe he has a lot of things to deal with now, thinking about his own things, and has no time to contact anyone actively, Look at how he treats others. Maybe his personality is not very cheerful, but if you put your heart into it, he will still remember you. There is no need to take the initiative to get along with him. It feels like two people get along naturally. One day, you will find that you have changed, and he has changed, at least better than others.
Possible reasons why boys are unwilling to say hello:
1. It may be that the man is shy and is embarrassed to chat with the person he likes directly.
2. It is a kind of strategy, which is intended to test the girls you like to see if they care about their feelings. The other is to let the girl who likes notice him by snubbing her.
3. He doesn't like you and thinks too much.
There are many reasons why a person is unwilling to greet others, which may be caused by external environment or internal factors.
The first is the influence of the external environment. A person's temperament is closely related to the environment in which he grew up. A person who does not want to greet others may be used to being ignored by relatives and friends, or the relationship between parents is not harmonious, or no relatives live together. The parents' education method is too strict, resulting in the child being too independent, Develop the habit of doing what you want. In other words, they think that they are not cared for and loved by others, that their families do not attach importance to their own birthdays, and that even they do not have the concept of birthdays, and that the world will change without themselves. Only those who have experienced this environment can understand this mentality. Keep a distance, so this kind of person will keep a certain distance at the beginning of communication, and will not take the initiative to make friends. After getting along for a period of time, he will have a certain understanding of you, and will slowly open his heart. Therefore, it is most important for us to maintain a sincere attitude towards friends with this personality. We should understand the reason why they form this character. Their behavior is not deliberate, but the influence of the growth environment.
Secondly, there are internal factors, such as strong self-esteem. More importantly, people think that greeting is just a form and does not represent anything. They think it is most important to make friends and get along with each other truthfully, while other forms are empty. What they care about is the process of communication. So the key problem is that these people don't regard greeting as a form of friendship, but most people think greeting is a matter of politeness and friendliness. In fact, how to express friendliness is not important. The way to express friendliness can always be understood by everyone.
