When many young people attend a dinner party, they always feel that they have made contributions to the company, so they can freely sit in various positions to show off their power. However, many young people are blind and sit in the position of guest of honor, which is finally repulsed by the leaders. Then why can't you sit opposite the leader for dinner?
1、 The two chopsticks should be aligned
When eating with leaders, especially at home, when placing tableware, two chopsticks must be aligned and placed on the bowl, not one long and one short. If one long and one short, it means three long and two short, which is very unlucky and disrespectful to leaders or colleagues. This is the first taboo.
2、 Knock bowl and bowl
What does that mean? It's wrong to use chopsticks to hit bowls, wine cups, spoons and so on when eating. In China, only beggars use chopsticks to hit pots and bowls when eating. You are not cursing people to be poor, so don't do this action. If you do, what will happen will happen, you know.
3、 Put incense on your face
What is incense on the face? It means that when leaders or colleagues have finished drinking, they are ready to eat. To show respect, you take the initiative to serve a meal for leaders or colleagues. After serving a meal, you put two chopsticks directly in the middle of the meal, and then pass the meal to leaders or colleagues. Never do this. Only those who are willing to die can do this. If you do this, think about the consequences. This is the third taboo.
4、 Sounding of chopsticks
It means that when eating with leaders or colleagues, do not use your mouth to suck chopsticks and make a "squeak" sound, which is the same as making a sound when drinking soup. This is a very impolite behavior.
5、 Patrolling the city with chopsticks
What do you mean? It means that you hold your chopsticks and turn them over in the bowl to find your own favorite food. This is very impolite and unhygienic. The correct way is to clip only the food in front of you. If you clip it, you should clip it whether you like it or not. Otherwise, your understanding or colleagues will eat your saliva in disguise. Who dares to eat it?!
6、 Tear Chopper Bead
What do you mean? When you hold your chopsticks to pick up food, you sometimes pick up more food, but you don't catch it with a bowl, and some food falls back into the bowl, just like chopsticks shed tears, which is neither polite nor hygienic. This is the sixth taboo.
When dining with leaders, pay attention to these four details. Leaders like you more:
1、 Keep a low profile and let the leaders perform
At dinner, we should first keep a low profile. If we keep a high profile at dinner, the leaders will let you drink more. At this time, your high profile is also easy to steal the limelight and the voice of your colleagues. Keep a low profile in your meals, so that you can avoid these things and let others do high-profile things. Low profile can not only reduce drinking, but also satisfy the small desires of other colleagues.
2、 At the dinner party, you should give others steps
There must be a lot of people who drink too much, and it is easier to get on top of them. At this time, they often say something embarrassing to others. However, many people will hurt others when they talk when they are drunk, which will make others feel unbearable. In serious cases, it may turn a meal close to the relationship into a meal that breaks the circuit. But if we and the company are drinking too much at the dinner party, if someone says something wrong and makes others feel embarrassed, then at this time, we can make a round in the middle and give others a step down. So don't drink too much at a dinner party, which will lead to some irrational things.
3、 Take the lead in creating topics and activating atmosphere in the dinner party
When we drink almost enough wine at the dinner party, we have basically finished talking about the topic, and then we have to sit in the position to eat, then everyone must feel more or less embarrassed, so in this time, we must not let the venue cool down, we can try to find a topic, and then enliven the atmosphere of the dinner party, It can also be more comfortable. If everyone just sits down to eat and doesn't say a word, the leader may also feel a little boring. At this time, you seem to play a good role in activating the atmosphere, which will also make the leader value you more.
4、 Take care of everyone during dinner
Everyone in the company must have different personalities during dinner. Some people are lively, while others are shy and do not like to contact people. Those colleagues who are lively by nature certainly don't need you to take care of them. They can play very well by themselves. However, those who are shy and reticent need you to take care of them.
On the way to dinner, you can sometimes go over to toast them, or say something that they are interested in, to make them feel that they are still being taken care of by others. At this time, they will feel very warm, and they must not feel excluded.
