It should be taken care of. After all, if he doesn't stay at home at night, it is irresponsible to leave his wife at home alone. If he still doesn't listen to the advice, you can also make several night outs to give him a taste of what it is like.
My husband often goes out to drink at night. As a daughter-in-law, you should take care! It must also be managed!
In fact, it is OK to drink, but not often; In fact, a small drink every day is OK, but you can't go out to drink. Because drinking at home is totally different from drinking out, a small drink at home every day can cultivate one's moral character; But as long as we get together with friends, we will either drink too much or get drunk. This is the last virtue that men go out to drink.
So others can be ignored, but drinking can not be ignored. Drinking too much will affect family harmony and hurt the body. As a wife, when facing her husband's drinking, she quarreled with him and tried to persuade him, which often ended in frustration. In fact, the most effective way to persuade my husband to drink is to take him to the hospital for physical examination.
The family and friends of a drinker usually fail to persuade him, unless the doctor tells him not to drink again, which will serve as a deterrent. If he insists on not going, do not force him to go. When he has other discomfort, such as abdominal pain or heart discomfort, take him to the hospital in time. At the same time, emphasize with the doctor that he usually has the habit of drinking. In short, let him understand that he cannot always spoil his body.
1. There are two situations when men drink at parties:
The first is that men enjoy freedom. They are irresponsible. No matter before or after marriage, they want to go to a party and drink anytime and anywhere. They don't have a sense of time or account. They are irresponsible at home and don't care about your reaction.
Second, his drinking party is just a way to escape. I hope you can have a good talk with him. You should know that men release their pressure by drinking at parties.
2. Countermeasures:
The first is to stop loss in time. A man who has no sense of responsibility has no way to deal with him.
The second is to accompany him and give him some free space. Of course, you can also sit down with him and chat, drink a little wine, and allow him to do something he likes, even playing games.
