When others praise you, a person with high EQ can give targeted answers to different people and situations. The answers should be appropriate and generous. How can we respond with high EQ when the boss praises us as excellent?
1. Respond with acceptance
If someone praises you and you don't know how to respond, at least accept and thank them for their affirmation. At this time, you can say "Thank you for your compliment", etc. Acceptance itself is a response to the other party.
You said that it was beautiful. The other side said that it was mainly because of the beautiful scenery. It's better to set off people.
2. Respond with humility
If you are usually a low-key person, you can choose some modest words to respond to others when they praise you, such as "Where did you praise me?" and "I just did my job".
For example, when leaders or elders praise you, you can say: Thank you for your recognition. Such a good result is not the credit of leaders. Or thanks to the cultivation of leaders.
Without your guidance. I will not do so well. I will learn more from you in the future.
If your colleagues praise you, you can say that it is everyone's credit, or you praise too much, which is not the result of the team's efforts. Or say: Thank you, just a little lucky this time. So I got the first place. This kind of response feels very modest.
3. Respond with anti boasting
If your eloquence is good, try to say something modest to praise the other party at this time. For example, when others praise your clothes for their beauty, you can say, "The shirt you are wearing today is also very beautiful, and I like it very much.
Or no matter how much others praise you, you can reply to thank you directly, and then praise the other person for his ability to speak! Your eloquence is not generally good! How did you practice your eloquence. I want to learn eloquence from you. This omnipotent sentence pattern is versatile.
4. Respond with ridicule
Or happily say: I love to hear this, but I can say more in the future.
Your mouth is like honey. When did it become so sweet.
For example, praise you for your beauty. You can say that you are very happy to hear your praise. Yes, otherwise you would be ashamed to stand beside you.
If someone praises you for your excellent work, you can reply: Please don't bring such
Some people praise humor.
Your reply: Hey, it's too difficult to be a saint. I still like to hear these flattering words.
Someone praises you handsome.
Your reply: How can you steal my lines? Or I feel so happy to be praised by beautiful women!
5. Respond by changing the topic
If others praise you for your talent, but you know that you actually have only half a bucket of water, the praise of others may not be intentional at this time, so you don't need to go around this topic, you can gently express your own ideas, and then find another topic to talk about. It would be better if we could not be so straightforward.
For example, when colleagues praise your clothes, you can say, thank you for your praise. Do you like it? I bought this dress from Wanda Yila. On weekends, where can I take you to buy it? In this way, the topic was cleverly changed.
Praised excellent and high EQ reply method:
1. If your elders praise you, pay special attention to understanding and language use, and be modest and appropriate, because it is related to your impression in their hearts. I will continue to work hard, show initiative and curiosity, let the elders feel your vitality and drive, and be modest and polite.
2. If we are casual friends or strangers, our response should be modest and grateful, which is actually a test of our sense of humor. This answer is usually polite, not substantive, and everyone knows this. The main purpose is to make both parties happy.
3. If you are a friend and they praise you, you don't need to answer modestly and appropriately, but can express your feelings by laughing and self mocking. This reaction makes people feel intimate and real.
Extended data
Speech response skills:
1. A person who can control bad emotions is more powerful than a person who can win a city. When the water is deep, the flow is slow, and when the language is late, people are expensive. We spent two years learning to speak, but it took decades to learn to shut up.
2. Never make any decision when you are angry.
The key to people's elegance is to control their emotions. It is the most foolish behavior to hurt people with your mouth. We are not free, usually because the bad emotions from the heart affect us.
