In fact, it's very simple. Just tell them that I don't lack these things, or we don't accept gifts, and if he doesn't listen, you can directly refuse him in person. After all, this kind of thing is not particularly good.
1. Take a detour.
It means that when the gift giver comes, he or she tries not to talk about things related to gifts, but leads the topic to other things of mutual interest. When the gift giver leaves, skillfully explain the reasons that are difficult to accept, so that the other party does not have the mentality and reason to persist.
2. Euphemism.
It is to use tactful, mild and polite language to suggest that it is difficult for you to accept. For example, first praise the characteristics and preciousness of the gift (beautiful, etc.), then turn around and say that I have several things (the same thing as the gift) to politely refuse. For example, if you attend a banquet or travel, you will say that the time is arranged, indicating that you cannot accept it.
3. Returned afterwards.
In order to avoid embarrassment and "failure to step down" due to public rejection, you can accept the gift first, and then try to return it as soon as possible, and euphemistically explain the reason why it is unacceptable. But be careful not to touch the gifts, do not unpack them, and do not delay for a long time.
4. Equivalent loopback.
If the giver is a relative or friend, the gift is small and has no special purpose, he/she will accept it directly and show his/her gratitude. Wait for an appropriate opportunity, and then give back equivalent gifts.
5. Transfer rebate.
If a gift that is reciprocated is judged not to be a bribe, it shall be accepted first. If it is gift money, it will be transferred back when the other family member's birthday, school and other opportunities occur in the future.
6. Tell the reason directly.
It is to say the reason to the gift giver directly and refuse to accept the gift clearly. If you refuse to accept large amounts of cash or valuable gifts from others in official exchanges, it can be said that the superior has regulations, and accepting cash gifts will be treated as bribery. Or it must be registered and handed in according to relevant regulations, and we will try our best to handle the matter.
First, we should tell each other politely.
The recipient should use euphemistic and polite language to suggest to the giver that it is difficult for him or her to accept the other party's gift. For example, when the opposite party gives a mobile phone to himself, he can tell: "I already have one, thank you." When a man gives a dance ticket to a lady, and the other party plans to refuse, he can say: "My boyfriend will invite me to dance tonight, and we have a previous engagement."
Second, we can adopt the method of direct reason.
That is to say, explain to the giver the reason why it is difficult for him to accept the gift. This law is particularly applicable when refusing gifts in official exchanges. For example, when refusing a large amount of cash presented by others, you can say: "We have a rule that accepting cash gifts will be treated as bribery." If it is a relatively expensive gift, you can say: "According to the relevant regulations, this thing you sent me must be registered and turned in. You'd better not spend money, and I will try my best to handle it."
At the same time, in the way of rejection, we can not only decline face to face, but also use the post restitution method.
Sometimes, if a gift is rejected in public, it will make the recipient difficult to speak and make the giver embarrassed. In this case, the method of return after the event can be adopted. But be careful not to damage the package. If it includes some perishable food, don't send it back, or buy some fresh food for others to send back, or give it back as a gift of equivalent value. However, it should be noted that the gifts should be returned on the same day after the return, and should not be delayed too long.
