What if I don't want to drink at the table? Some people are not good at drinking and are easily intoxicated at the table, but it is often because they do not understand the table culture that they are intoxicated by others. Here are four things you should never say when you don't want to drink at the table.
The first one: Let me just say
Hold up the wine glass and say "I mean it" to others. You just said that you would not drink it, but when you offer wine to others or others offer wine to you, you hold up the wine glass again. I mean, as long as you open this small mouth, there will be another big mouth. So don't say "I mean it".
The second kind: persuade others to drink more
Since you don't drink yourself, you also advise others to drink more. The more you do, the more people around you point the gun at you, and you don't drink yourself, but also advise others to drink more. What do you mean? So soon everyone will join together to drink until you vomit.
The third kind: Never stand up and speak sarcastically
Stand up and make sarcastic remarks, satirize others for drinking too little, and say that others are not in a state. It's good to say that people drink less if you don't drink it yourself, and that people are unknowingly satirizing others for not being in a state. The more you say that, the more unpleasant it will be. People will come back to you with a state to drink.
Fourth: Next time, I will invite you to drink, and next time, I will have a good drink with you
When the wine table said "I'll treat you next time", everyone felt that you looked down upon everyone this time, and they didn't accompany you this time. So as long as you can say next time, today is not good for you. Don't wait for next time. It's better to choose a day than today. Drink with your brothers.
So if you don't want to drink at the table, please don't open a small mouth for a while, persuade others to drink more, and then make sarcastic remarks. Don't do this, or it will attract others' attention, and then you will be the one to drink. When you don't want to drink at the table, you always adhere to your own principles, and show the specific irresistible reasons. Everyone will understand you.
