Just do the following, you can make your husband love you more and more. If you take the following points to the extreme, others' husbands will look at you more. From the male perspective, tell women what the core needs of men are. If you grasp the core needs, you can grasp the heart of men.
First, keep a distance from your husband
Don't talk about him every day. If you stick to him every day, you will expose yourself excessively. You are transparent in his eyes. In other words, if you have no sense of mystery in his eyes, he will lose his desire to explore you. Because if he continues to put energy into you, he will feel no sense of achievement. Two keywords, desire to explore and sense of achievement. Lick it yourself. How to keep the mystery? Let me give you a little advice. It needs a small skill of contrast. For example, you can be very enthusiastic about him verbally, but you should have a sense of boundaries in action. As the saying goes, you should be sweet and act less. You may think this is unreasonable. After all, they are adults and have passed the age of listening to love. Who doesn't know how to see the action? If it is unreasonable, it is right. If you think it is unreasonable, he will also think it is unreasonable, That's why he started thinking about you, and you succeeded, understand?
Second, use yourself to attract him, not your labor.
If you do the opposite, you will become a bitter wife who gives silently. This is not to blame men for not being grateful, but it is determined by men's core needs. Among the core needs of men, women are beautiful and valuable, which must be in front of being good to them. You eat and drink, and Lazar treats him meticulously. If he wipes his lips, he will still be angry with the beautiful women in the trembling voice, or he will go to the street to watch the beautiful women bump into the trees. If you serve him as a maid, he will eventually treat you as a real maid and treat others as goblins. So you should spend at least half of your time on yourself. You should dress, dress, keep fit, beautify and enrich your brain to improve yourself. When you improve yourself, his attention will return, and then you will be more confident, he will pay more attention to you, and your feelings can enter a positive cycle.
Third, recognize that men's feelings are cyclical
He can't be 100% enthusiastic to you all the time, and you can't do it yourself, can you? When he treats you coldly, his performance at this time is very important. You must not be a monster. You must not excessively ask for or complain. The best response attitude is cold treatment. Cold treatment can bring you a sense of mystery to him. Excessive attention to men will only make you worry about gains and losses. Cold treatment and good management can make you more attractive. Two choices, two results, how would you choose?
Fourth, you can be single-minded emotionally, but not too focused
You think about this man every day. Your state is like that when he chased you, he was idle like a jobless vagrant. Now you have become the jobless vagrant. He has a wind and grass, and you are in a stormy situation. Who is in pain? Distract your attention and focus on cultivating children, career and friends. If you can't do it, you will think about how to make money.
