How promising a man can be is closely related to his performance in marriage. In other words, home and everything is not just a blessing message, but a profound truth. Because if a man wants to be at home, he must have extraordinary qualities, and marriage itself is the touchstone of whether a man is strong enough.
It is a question of whether he knows enough about the needs of men and women as well as himself and his partner. It's stupid to look for the beautiful ones; It is lazy to only look for obedient people; Only those who are gentle are not confident. Only those who are rich are soft food. Although choice is more important than effort in marriage and love, even if you choose the right person, it is just the beginning, and then you will enter the marriage test. Is there a sense of responsibility? Is it enough? After a long time, a woman married a man. It is to give one's life to a man, and also to have children for him, one, two, three. What did you give her? Don't be vain. Is it enough to assume the responsibility when you say love list? Don't think that giving money is responsible. Just giving money is a trade. How much is it to buy a person and children? How many people who don't want to do small things can do great things? Women need to be cared for, which is also a kind of responsibility. Has this responsibility been fulfilled? In marriage, loyalty is a responsibility, honesty is a responsibility, and mutual understanding and tolerance are responsibilities. It's a real man to shoulder these responsibilities as a husband, isn't it?
Now this era is becoming more and more fair. At the end of the fight, it is about character, quality, responsibility, empathy, magnanimity, ambition, being able to bear hardships, being loyal, daring, not evading, not lying. Which one is not the quality that a man must have to be successful. If these are not or not enough, who gives you courage? So overbearing. Looking around, friends who get along well with their wives, no matter what industry they are in, are among the best. Even an ordinary employee can make progress step by step, and continue to be appreciated by leaders. Some friends whom I haven't seen for a long time meet again. When I ask them, they are good at everything. The way the couple sit together is very enviable. That is the real home and everything.
Therefore, for men, men are the gender and talent is the key. Being a man who stands up to the sky at home and abroad is a real man. He always gives a woman a look and sometimes takes his wife to vent his anger, which is just a sign of incompetence. A person looking for fun and having a good time, regardless of the feelings of his wife and children, is just a paper figure and a name in a widowed marriage.
Finally, give a little advice to female friends who are still out of marriage or just came out of marriage. When choosing a partner, don't always think about the man's conditions, what career to do, whether he has a house or a car. Observe whether he is an honest, responsible, hardworking, generous, friendly to strangers, willing to respect and listen to you. Because these not only determine whether your marriage is happy in the future, but also determine the upper limit of his career.
