What should men do if they refuse to communicate? No matter whether you are in love or in marriage, if a man refuses to communicate and shows indifference and indifference, as long as you follow these three methods, I believe you will have different results.
1. He is cold, you are colder than him.
Once a man treats you with cold violence in a relationship, it means that his heart doesn't care about you anymore. If you still pester and repeatedly ask him why he treats you like this at this time, it can only let him succeed in his intention to hurt you through cold violence, and will look down on you even more, thinking that you can't leave him at all, and will hurt you even more. On the contrary, if you do not compromise, but take a high attitude to deal with it, instead of pandering to him in a low voice, but being colder and more arrogant than him, then his attempt will fail, and his psychology will be unbalanced. Naturally, you will begin to wonder why you are such an attitude. Sometimes the more you keep a distance from a person, the less you value him. On the contrary, he will care more about you. Therefore, in the face of cold violence, we must not let the other party's emotions become biased, we should turn passive into active, and treat the person with his own way.
2. Don't make any noise
The more noisy the other party is, the colder it will be. Instead, keep sober and rational. During the cold violence, it is actually a game between you and the other party. If you want to win, the two parties will fight for who is more calm. More calm. In many cases, the reason why men take cold violence is to force you to make a decision, either to meet some of his requirements that are beyond your tolerance, or to let you choose to leave on your own initiative in this way. If you are controlled by the emotions caused by the other party at this time, and show anxiety, or even get mad, make a big noise, it means that you have completely lost the cold war that the other party deliberately caused. On the contrary, if you have been trying to keep you calm and calm, and make the worst plan to cope with the changes with the same, let the other person feel that what he has done can not affect you at all, or even in your eyes is not worth mentioning, giving him the feeling that you will live better without him, so that the other person will be at a loss.
3. Ignore
Make your life more exciting. Both marriage and feelings are just a part of life. After all, people live for themselves. Why should they be controlled and dominated by other people's emotions? You don't need to change anyone, you can't change anyone, you can only change yourself. You are also the one who really treats you and loves you the most in the world. Don't ruin your life for someone. When facing a man's cold violence or indifference, as long as you don't pay attention to it, don't think too much about it, and do what you should do, when a woman can calmly face her feelings, that is, she won't be hurt by feelings anymore. When facing a man, she doesn't insist, don't linger, go or stay at will, and carefully do herself well. All problems will no longer be problems, including cold violence.
