Rejection should have methods and strategies. How can you refuse others? Suggestions are three words, one is recognition, one is hardship, and the other is way out. All rejections will use this operation.
What is recognition? It means admitting that you are willing to help the other party, that it is not easy for the other party, and that it is reasonable for the other party to find you. The classmate told you that you could stroll around the street for me, but you said no, I would carry something today, so how simple and rude your refusal would be.
You have to say to him: "Going shopping with me shows that we have a good relationship. If conditions permit, I am particularly willing to go shopping with you. Because going shopping with you is not only a process of seeing things, but also a process of self-improvement. I think that many of your things are of high taste, so I think it is very good."
Let's admit it first. We must admit it first. After admitting it, we talked bitterly: "But I can't go. It's going to be an exam. Tomorrow morning, there will be a hundred questions, and I will recite three. If I don't pass the exam, it will collapse, and life will not pass. So I can't go with you."
But then he said the way out: "Although I can't go with you, I know the person next door. He can go with you tomorrow when he has time, and he is willing to pay for food, drink and play. You don't have his contact information, I'm ready now. You open the phone, and I push it to you." You see this is the way out.
As we go higher and higher on the road of growth and progress, we will become bigger and bigger. Prosperity and prosperity are in front of us, and career development and self realization are in front of us. In this case, you really need to learn more methods and strategies.