What to do in the tangle of divorce or no divorce? If you are confused about whether to divorce, after reading the following analysis, I believe you will have a better understanding of marriage.
First, there is no perfect marriage
Romance and sweetness are the first few years of marriage, and the rest are trivial meals, pork prices, children disobedience, mother-in-law meddling, husband playing games, wife complaining, husband and wife always cold war. No one can escape these daily necessities. People have seven emotions and six desires. They eat all kinds of grains. All ordinary people can't escape the troubles of the world of mortals. But today, they look envious from afar, and when they get closer, they are full of holes. Although the broken mirror is difficult to be reunited, it will not affect the use if it is stuck on. Life is basically chicken feather, but it depends who can clean it.
Second, there is no perfect partner
God is fair. If you are given a happy little day, you may not be given a lot of money. Once you are given a lot of money, you often take away happiness. You want to be reunited in another place, live together and want to be free. If you marry an honest man, you want him to have fun. If you have fun, you want him to be single-minded and single-minded. If you want him to think more about how to make money, and if he really makes money, you want him to accompany me more. The pain in marriage is all because you can't ask for anything. There's nothing to kill. The liberation in marriage is to understand compromise. In fact, one day when you really see through and understand, you will find out who you have been with. It turns out that you have been with yourself in the end, so don't choose divorce because of escape.
Third, are you sure that the next man will be better than the current one?
Let's sort it out. What other advantages do we have today? With our appearance gone, has the wisdom of life and the experience of marriage become richer as we grow older? If not, maybe the next marriage will not be much better than the current one, because the longevity of any relationship is determined by the chips behind it. If you don't have superior conditions, let's not take risks. The next lover is likely to have more places for you to tolerate and compromise. Because the first round of marriage eliminated. There's no big problem and it's not our turn.
Finally, I would like to say that marriage is a mirror, seeing our own problems, and marriage is also a practice, with the help of partners to repair our shortcomings. We all envy the old people with white hair at sunset and their undying love, but don't forget that they were just like this when they were young.
