How do men attract women? I have summarized three points for you. Boys who can flirt with girls use these three points.
First, I can't guess your life.
Most of the boys like to report everything to others when they are chasing girls. When they are going to go, what they want to do, what they want to eat, what they have seen, and what they have played, you have completely exposed your life to each other. You have said everything you need to say. How can girls become curious about your life?
For example, you are having a good chat with a girl. You just tell her: I won't tell you anymore. I will turn off my computer. Then, whether you turn it off or not, don't answer again. During this period, the girl will always wonder why he needs to shut down the phone and why he went. All she thinks about is you until you contact her again. But most of the boys said to the girls, "I won't tell you any more. It's time for a meeting and hand in my mobile phone. I'll turn it off first.". So that girls have no sense of expectation and curiosity, and are clear about your life trends.
Second, you can't guess your purpose.
Girls are amazing animals, Mingming. That's a good impression on you, but once you say it, her interest in you drops from 60 minutes to 40 minutes, so don't let her see through your purpose, don't show the bottom card to keep him curious about you, and he will love you more and more and be more interested in you. You can do this. Be warm to him. When she just thinks that you are going to chase her, you can hang her up for a few days and disappear. Or in the first few days, pay attention to her. When she thinks you want to express yourself, whether you go to the circle of friends to interact with his little girl or go out to play, in short, it is necessary to show contrast so that she can not understand your purpose. In this way, girls will wonder what you mean to her, whether you like her or not, whether you want to chase her, or even she may come to question you.
Third, create the illusion of lovers.
It's easy for a girl to follow her own habits and feelings. You need to create some illusion similar to a couple in the normal communication process. For example, if you go to a restaurant to have a meal, you can tell the waiter to order this set meal for a couple. After that, you don't need to explain, just eat frankly. Another example is to give him an ambiguous nickname and call her easily every day. In short, it makes him feel like you are in love. After getting used to it, she will automatically take herself into the identity of girlfriend.
