What does the girl mean when she says "no feeling"? The reason why a woman rejects a man is usually that I have no feelings for you. So what kind of men can make women feel? The answer to this question is not clear to men, or even women themselves. For women, some men have good conditions and are willing to work hard for themselves, but they just don't feel for them. For other men, you can't say what's good about him, but she is obsessed with him. Even if the man doesn't meet her own criteria for choosing a mate, she doesn't care. She is even willing to change her criteria for this man. People habitually define these things that are unclear and unclear as fate.
Since ancient times, many infatuated men and women have been trapped in love, and can't ask for it. Fortunately, our times are developing, science and technology are progressing, biology, physiology, sociology, psychology, etc., giving us the opportunity to explore the mystery of these things.
The human brain has two mechanisms, one is the logical layer, the other is the emotional layer. Our thinking, language and words come from the logical layer, while what girls usually say comes from the emotional layer. When they contact the opposite sex, both men and women will automatically open this mechanism. The logical layer will judge and make decisions that are beneficial to you, and the emotional layer will automatically identify the attractive points of the opposite sex, thus turning on the switch. This process does not need to be thought about, and is automatically completed by genes. Just like when you see a hot girl on the street, you can't help but look at her twice. This is an automatic body reaction without thinking. This can explain why you are so kind to her, but she has no feeling for you, because you are reasoning in the logical layer of the brain, while the girl describes her feelings in the emotional layer, which are not in the same channel. Naturally, they are talking together, which is the weakest aspect of most of us boys.
I'll give you two examples. For example, if you plan to insist on running in the morning, you know it's good for your health, and you really plan to do it. But when the alarm clock rings in the morning, your mood still hurts and you feel comfortable lying down, so you press the alarm clock to death, and your emotions beat your logic. For another example, I told you that you should chat up and socialize more. You also agree with this, and you really intend to do so, but when a hot girl comes to you. Your feet seem to have taken root. You seem to be frozen stiff, and a deep sense of anxiety and fear arises spontaneously. You even turn around and dare not open your eyes to see her. You tell yourself that I will go to her next time I meet him. Once again, emotions have defeated your logic, which is the impact of emotional feelings on you. In front of emotions, your logical thinking is fragile and powerless.
You may have heard that men prefer logic and women prefer sensibility. You see, even our men can hardly overcome their emotions, let alone women? This is also why many men can't understand some practices of girls. He thinks that girls' behavior and ideas are unpredictable. The reason is that girls are more emotional, they pay more attention to and rely on emotions, and feeling love is even more so, because love itself is a feeling, an emotion. If a woman says she has no feelings for you, she is actually lacking an emotional feeling, an emotional feeling deeply attracted.
Feeling can not be persuaded by conditions, standards and logic. It is not certain that a man with good conditions can make a woman's heart beat, nor can he gain her feeling by pleasing and moving. No matter how good your conditions are, or how sincere you are to her, it's all logical persuasion. It's like you are telling her that my conditions are so good and meet your standards. You should like me. I treat you so well and you should like me. But brother, emotion is totally unreasonable. Emotion is emotion and feeling. In principle, we should exercise more, smoke less, drink less, eat more vegetables, socialize more and chat up more. But your laziness, fear, appetite and other emotions will make you not want to do so. When a woman meets a man who has good conditions and is willing to pay for her, she will logically feel that she should be with her, but her emotions will make her not want you to make a girl feel in love with you. Emotion you have to use emotional shock to mobilize her emotions. You need to change her emotions, not her logic.
