How can a happy marriage stay together for a long time? If you want to make your marriage more and more happy, you must understand the truth of marriage. The following methods of marriage management hope to help you.
First, don't trust those poisonous chicken soup on the Internet. Because everyone has different personalities and different ways of expressing love, there is no unique criterion for judging love. Your husband loves you or is not responsible for his family. You know it best in your heart.
Second, don't always think about changing the other person. You can change him for a while, but you can never change him forever.
Third, it is normal for two people to have nothing to say and lose their sense of freshness after being together for a long time. But we must be alert. The sense of novelty is to experience new things with old people, not to find a new person to experience old things.
Fourth, if two people live together, if they do not want to be so tired, they must learn to lower themselves, do not have expectations, do not have requirements, and do not indulge their emotions at will. Emotional stability is a very valuable quality in marriage.
Fifth, the so-called "three outlooks" are incompatible and cannot continue to live, which is purely an excuse. One's three views will change with age and rich life experience. Two people who love each other sincerely will blend and progress together for the sake of family.
Sixth, when two people quarrel, women's harsh words hurt most. Don't let our duplicity hurt each other's heart. Men also need to remember that never have a cold war. When there are many cold wars, women will not look back after saving enough disappointment.
Seventh, the economic foundation determines the superstructure. Neither husband nor wife should let themselves become the financial burden of the other. No one is willing to carry the burden forward. We should believe in love, but more importantly, we should believe in human nature.
Eighth, don't make any decisions when you are angry, because 99% of the decisions you make when you are angry will be regretted. No matter how close you are, you will have 200 impulses to divorce in your life. Quarrel is also the normal state of marriage. Don't want to divorce every time you quarrel. In fact, in daily life, as long as your smile is more than your tears, it means that we have not married the wrong person.
