Do you know why a person suffers? Because you don't understand human nature, the injured person is always you. Many people still feel miserable after living for most of their lives. What is the reason for this?
First of all, you should understand that there is no right or wrong, good or evil. For example, when you walk, you hate cars; when you drive, you hate pedestrians; when you work, you think the boss is stingy; when you are the boss, you think the employees are irresponsible; When I was a child, I felt that my parents were very lenient. When I became a parent, I felt that my child was not obedient enough. So who is wrong after all? In fact, no one is wrong, because the instinct of human nature is selfishness, just like I have a steamed bun, we are both starving to death. I said: I'm starving, and I'll give you steamed buns to eat. Am I not a saint? Unless you promise to give me three bags of rice tomorrow, why should I give you food?
The reason why many people criticize others from the moral vantage point is that the knife is not stuck in you, and you certainly won't feel pain. People have no good or evil, only strong or weak. All people's loyalty is evolving into loyalty to value. When you have no money, you are surrounded by cynicism. When you are rich, even the enemy will come to ask for help. No one will answer your words. That's because you are poor and speak lightly. No one supports what you do. That's because you have no chips in your hand. No one in the world has an obligation to be loyal to another. Whether it is family, friendship or love, everyone is fighting for their own interests. The so-called good and evil, right and wrong, right and wrong, these are just the rules that the strong set for the weak. Just like Mr. Lu Xun who has studied the traditional culture for thousands of years, he finally summed up two words, "Eat people".
In short, there are only two kinds of people in this society, one is wolf, the other is sheep. Either a wolf that can eat people, or a sheep waiting to be eaten. So be sober. There are only three things in the world that can be relied on. One is the person who gave birth to you and the person who gave birth to you; The second is the money in your pocket, and the third is your ability to make money. Remember this sentence, God helps those who help themselves. No one in the world can be responsible for your happiness. If you want to be strong, the only thing you can rely on is yourself.
