How to make a woman more and more inseparable from you? If you want a woman to be inseparable from you, the premise must be that we are good enough. And what we usually call excellence is a person's high value, including material value, sexual value and emotional value. The substitutability of the first two is relatively strong, because men who are handsomer and richer than us are everywhere, and the most difficult one among the three is emotional value, which is why there are so many ugly men with beautiful women on the street.
There are three steps to make a woman mentally inseparable from you.
Step 1: You must learn how to look at others
What do you mean? That means you can have no money, no face, no ability, but you must know what this woman wants. Because when everyone faces feelings, subconsciously they will be attracted by the trait they lack. For example, if the other person is introverted, you should show your sunny side. For example, if she is lack of recognition since childhood, you must make her feel valuable and give her confidence, which is the compensation psychology in the value emotion. Matching vacancies is rare, which is a very meaningful step. Even if our advantages in material value or sexual value are not obvious enough, we can still stand out.
The second step: emotional payment
The reason why a person loves you depends on how much he pays for you. You spent 100000 yuan for a woman, and you spent 10 yuan for another woman. You will be reluctant to leave. Who? The greater the cost of silence, the more difficult it is for us to give up. So we must strengthen each other's efforts and increase her sunk costs.
Step 3: Make her addicted to you
The so-called addiction is that we know that this behavior is bad, but we just can't stop. We need to use the instinct of human nature to seek benefits and avoid disadvantages, so that the other party can rely on us spiritually. First, penetrate her heart and let her see you as a habit. Appear in her life as if there is nothing in it, seize every moment when she needs someone, and appear in time to give her a sense of security that others cannot give her. The sense of security is the most addictive thing for a woman. Don't give her a sense of security all the time, but let her feel the preferred sense of security. What do you mean? You look like a sea king and a cynic, but you only give him a sense of security. This strong contrast can make women addicted.
