If your words don't carry weight, many people will turn a deaf ear to what you say. What can we do to subdue them in this situation? What if you don't listen to others? Here are 5 ways to deal with people who don't listen.
The first move is to dare to face other people's eyes without being erratic or evasive.
Some people dare not even look when they say a word. The other side's eyes are evasive. Isn't that a sign of lack of confidence? Just like you, the other party will eat you through in an instant.
Second, Hai Yun let the conversation get stuck, embarrassed, stalled and silent.
"The ten thousand yuan you owe me must be paid back today, or you will be at your own risk." Then you stop. If you stop for more than five seconds, he will be forced to open. If he does not accept you, the scene will be very embarrassing. As long as you don't feel embarrassed about this kind of thing, it is the other person who is embarrassed.
Third, dare to ask and refuse.
"Please pass me this paper. I don't agree with what you said just now. If anyone dares to persuade me to drink this wine today, I will stop eating it immediately and go home directly." If a person says that he dare not ask or refuse others, it is others. Isn't it a soft persimmon in your eyes? You are a soft persimmon. Who doesn't want to pinch you twice?
Fourth, don't casually expose your emotions.
Don't talk about your sufferings when you see people. Don't talk about your sufferings when you meet people. Don't panic when you talk. Take your time when you walk. Don't express your likes or dislikes on the surface. Don't express your feelings when you are happy or angry. People who are close to you should not tell the following four secrets, do not say what you regret, do not say what happened to you, do not say about your money, do not say about your family's private affairs. Do less of these four secrets, and you will be far away from many disasters and right and wrong.
Fifth, either you don't speak, or you must speak loudly and firmly
It seems possible to use more positive sentences like "absolutely must be 100%" and less positive sentences like "empty words" and "nonsense". When you are unshakable, others can be shaken by you. Speak in a loud voice. Don't falter or falter. People will be awed by loud things, just like that woman and child. That's why children are afraid of thunder.
