Good feelings, like the sunshine in winter, can bring warmth to people. Or like the cool wind in summer, bringing bursts of coolness. But can a man really relax when he plays hard?
1. When he falls in love with you and likes you, he won't be distracted
When a philandering man really likes you, he will become single-minded, worried about your anger, so he will refuse to flirt with other women, and take your feelings seriously. If he doesn't like you, he will treat you like other women.
Only when he really likes you will he take the initiative to change his heart and give you a happy and stable life. Many men are reluctant to go to the carnival, chasing bees and butterflies because they have not met a woman who can completely move him emotionally and conquer him. Once such a woman appears, he will become more single-minded than the lover.
2. Let him feel fresh
Some men wander among many women because they like excitement and novelty. It is different experience to fall in love with everyone, so he just wants to try every feeling of love. If you can always arouse his interest and let him see that you are different from other women, he will want to pursue and explore you and will concentrate on you.
3. You should guide him, be more shrewd than him, and control him
For a playboy, you must guide him to take care of you. Just like a kite, it will loosen and tighten, so he will love you more and more, and won't spend any more time. If a philandering man meets a woman with a fiery disposition who has great control and deterrence over men and makes him respect and fear her, then he can only live with a woman in peace whether he is willing or not.
4. Indulge him and let him play at will. When he is tired, he will not spend any time
Sometimes, feelings are helpless. There is no reason to fall in love with a person. Even if you know that he is interested, you still like him without hesitation. However, even if you like him again, you should also pay attention to the degree of emotion. You should not be too kind to him. You should let him go. When he is tired and tired of playing, he will turn over a new leaf and become a good person after a hysterical attack.
Correctly judge whether the husband's return from infidelity is sincere:
1、 The performance of false return
In fact, the proportion of men who can really return wholeheartedly after cheating is almost so small that the original partners doubt life; The reason is that people's feelings can not be shut down as tap water does, and extramarital affairs are also the experience of growing up and yearning for the same core as normal love. When people have to say goodbye to each other because of external forces, how can they just say goodbye to each other and wipe it out.
It is not that men stop when they are tired of playing and feel guilty, but that after being found out by the original match, they can not give up their hard-earned property to a large extent. This kind of men cut off their love clothes after weighing again and again.
Usually, the extramarital affair can only be completely ended unless the woman wants to break it. The rare man takes the initiative to break it. Unless he has another new family, he will give up the mistress and go to the mistress.
For the wife who has been injured by the cheating husband, the biggest denial is not to find that her husband has cheated, but that she is still disconnected from her mistress after returning.
"Should I save it" and "Is he really going back" are two big problems that women often ask repeatedly; The man who returns temporarily under the pressure of his family is called "treading on two boats". Although this man seems to have withdrawn from the world of desire, he has no sincerity and guilt in his eyes. He is not a relief. His return is like a tide and a pendulum. He will be honest for a period of time, and then repeat the old tricks again.
2、 Characteristics of sincere return
There is only one kind of man who can return sincerely after cheating. That is, the man suddenly wakes up and takes the initiative to return sincerely, instead of being forced to return formally by his wife after she gets the evidence.
The man who really returns to his family has a sign that his sense of family responsibility will be unprecedented; He will no longer hold his mobile phone tightly in his hand like a grenade. He will take the initiative to tell his wife his whereabouts 24 hours a day, so that you can stop dreaming; A man who has no secrets will not dodge his eyes and speak more frankly and firmly.
A man who sincerely returns will take the initiative to change his property ownership certificate to Wife 1
