Many brothers don't know how to chat with a girl when chatting with her. If they want to make her like you, they can talk from the following aspects.
First, the substitution method is often used for chatting.
When you chat with girls, if you want to find out what girls are interested in, you must remember to use the substitution method to ask questions.
For example, when you ask a girl for dinner but don't know what she wants to eat, if you ask her what she wants to eat later?
Girls will basically give you one back, I can. I believe you are too young.
What would people with high EQ say? Guess what I'll take you to eat later? Three options, hot pot, Korean food and branch. With this sentence, it is easy for girls to tell them what they want to eat. It's better than guessing where you are.
Second, we must avoid giving cheap advice to the other party.
For example, this girl tells you some annoying things, such as unfriendly colleagues and unhappy work. If you tell you that you let her change her job, or let her go back to school and study again, you can ask yourself, if you say you can't earn money and the girl lets you go back to school, will you go? Do you think it can solve your problem? Is that what you want to hear? Do you know what to learn? Can you learn it? So in the face of a girl's complaint, you should not give any advice so quickly except comfort. You just need to express that you understand him very well at this stage, feel as sad as him, and help him point out why he is confused at present. If it were you, how would you solve it. You make a girl feel that you are on the same side with her and have an emotional resonance with you. He can also find his own direction from your solutions and kill two birds with one stone.
Third, it is very simple to increase goodwill. You can try to repeat some words of girls.
For example, girls say: I usually like to run in the morning.
You can say that you like running in the morning. No wonder you keep such a good figure.
It is much better to hide praise in the other party's topic than to praise the other party directly when you go there. Follow her. Girls like to listen more and feel that you are sincere.
Fourth, reverse thinking.
This point should be explained. For example, girls often ask boys for help. Normal men are always obedient and on call. Girls are also used to being treated like this by boys. Even after helping, girls will not be emotionally
