Many of us are now in a bad mood. Our days are getting better and our mood is getting worse. We complain whenever we want, and we complain whenever we want. In fact, mind management is a big problem. The secret of mind management is position identification.
The team has four positions. Look at Journey to the West and Tang Sanzang. Its position is resources. It has resources and background. The Jade Emperor, the Supreme Lord, and Guanyin Bodhisattva all support him, so he doesn't have to work to be the boss, so Tang Sanzang eats resources. The Monkey King is a master. He eats a master's meal, moves mountains and fills the sea to subdue demons and eliminate demons. It is difficult to leave him for a hundred and eight thousand miles. So Monkey King lives a free life. He can be late, leave early, come late, leave early, do not check on work attendance, do not punch in, and even the monkey feels that the superior leader reports the style problem of the leader at his own level. Senior Brother, this is called skill, that is, the rule of the free workplace, capable of losing his temper is called personality, and the incompetent of losing his temper is called death. So we should learn the ability of capable people rather than their temper. What Sun Wukong eats is skill, and skill is freedom. Zhu Bajie has no resources or skills, but Zhu Bajie is agreeable to his eyes. He eats emotions, and Fan Shunyan is the reason. So you can do the eight commandments, and you can do nothing. The challenge is that the monk in Sha has nothing. How can he achieve the goal? Monk Sha knows that it doesn't matter that I have no resources, no skills, no feelings, and no problems. I can only bear hardships and suffer. So Monk Sha eats hard food. Sweat decides the way out. You have nothing. As long as you can bear hardships and suffer, I want you. Sweat decides the way out.
There are about four positions in a team. We should all carry our own bowls and eat our own meals. What is the biggest problem in our society now? Employees like Monk Sha have to live like the Monkey King and want to ride Tang Sanzang's horse, which is called misplaced.
All the complaints about fairness and justice around us are misplaced. They are incompetent, resourceless and incompetent. They complain about social injustice all day long. They don't work hard at all, and they want to live a glorious and prosperous life, so they are misplaced. So the position identification reminds us that if our own mentality is unbalanced, you can see where you are.
Furthermore, if Monk Sha is in a bad mood, let's think about who he should compete with? Answer: White Dragon Horse, this is called correct comparison. White Dragon Horse is a dragon or a horse? The prince in the dragon, once he takes part in the revolution and others wear work clothes to work, he has to come with his buttocks bare. He will not eat or talk to others. And the most hateful team clearly has five members. Every time they write a red headed document, four masters and apprentices go to the west. White Dragon Horse doesn't even have a formal preparation. Don't people have to bear it? So in this matter of life, if you look up and compare, you will lose more and more. If you look down and compare, you will feel happy. Choosing the right comparison object is the basis of mental balance.
