How to see through a person's heart? We will meet all kinds of people, some kind, some hypocritical, but how can we see through a person's heart?
First, if a girl takes selfies in her circle of friends all day long, most people in Jiugongs are a bit narcissistic, and this kind of person is extremely eager for praise from others. So if you want to have a good relationship with him, you can praise her directly.
Second, when a person is looking at his mobile phone, you give him a cold look. He immediately locks the screen and looks at you nervously, indicating that he is looking at the content that cannot be shown. If you are interested, you can check his browsing records.
Third, after being criticized, those who can correct their mistakes without changing their face and heart are all experts. Those who can correct their mistakes without changing their face and heart after being criticized are not experts, but dead pigs are not afraid of boiling water.
Fourth, as soon as they get to know each other, they will tell the whole story. As soon as they get to know each other, they will be regarded as close relatives. Such people are not friendly, but lonely.
Fifth, the higher your expectations of a person, the greater your disappointment. Don't lower your expectations of yourself, but lower your expectations of others and any relationship. I once saw such a sentence on the Internet, and I deeply believe that many lovers who have met directly or indirectly in the surrounding circle of friends have finally entered the marriage palace, but many of them have been unfaithful in the long run of love, and some stories have been tacitly told, or even helped them cover up. Every wedding, I watched the newlyweds with tears in their eyes as they recited their vows. Never doubted their sincerity at that moment. But human nature is so profound and complex. After thousands of times of transit, I can understand everything and can no longer believe anything. Mature people are more able to realize the meanness and changefulness of human nature, and infants have lower expectations of others. I don't mean I don't believe your sincerity at the moment, but there is a long way to go. I'm not sure that your sincerity will last until the end. Gradually, you will see through any relationship and eventually reach a balance, whether it is love, friendship or kinship. The pampering, love and care you get from the other party is like the credit card you owe, and you will need to repay one day, so don't expect too much. People will easily let you down.
Sixth, people who will leave a way for themselves when doing things are thoughtful people. Behind every seemingly ordinary but powerful person, there is a sideline supporting his confidence.
Seventh, if there is a person in the circle around you who has always been independent and behaves differently from most of the people around you, it means that he and you are not at the same level. I know an engineer who retired at a young age. He has a pension of more than 10000 yuan a month. In order to pass the time, he works in the property of his own community for pleasure. Others work in a dull manner. He is as happy as two hundred and fifty every day.
Eighth, no matter what he says, he will say that I have a friend who does what he does, and now how much he earns a month. This kind of person obviously has no ability. These friends of his do not have much relationship with him.
Ninth, if you want to find out whether a family has a solid family, you should look at the clothes of the women and elders in the family. Although some people drive BMWs and Audis themselves, their wives may sweep the floor in the street where they drive.
