For those who are afraid of breaking up or have broken up, humble, and want to get back together. Some people still can't let go after breaking up. They don't know how to get out quickly. The following suggestions will help you.
First, in fact, breaking up is not terrible at all. What is terrible is that you regard a relationship as your whole.
In fact, the more you value each other in a relationship, the more you need each other. The person who needs the other person strongly is often because he is too weak and has no independent personality. If he places all his needs on the other person, his relationship will be his whole. In such a relationship, the person you need will also be very tired. When the other person is tired, he will want to escape you.
Second, breaking up is not a bad thing in a sense.
It's like a person who can't swim but always wants to swim in the deep water. In the end, if you choke on water, it is not the problem of water, but that you will not swim all the time. Only when you hit your head and bleed, can you find out what you can't do. So breaking up is just a result. It is actually reminding you that the relationship you are running is going to end because of your incompetence. No one has the obligation to participate in the relationship that consumes both parties and not go out. It is just that you are unwilling to go out and the other party goes out first.
Third, it is not necessarily your fault to break up. It may also be that the other party did not take you as a partner in life.
So in this case, two people should be separated. Don't deny yourself at the first time. A person who has not played enough, even if you are the best girl in the world, the other person will hurt you with impunity. Because you haven't played enough, you must not be the focus of the other party.
Fourth, breaking up is a new start for your self growth, not the door of happiness closed to you.
Don't blindly let that person come back to you, because even if the other person comes back to you, your problems will still go the same way. At this time, you need to settle down and understand yourself. You need to ask yourself, do you love that person or do you need that person because you are too weak? If you really love someone, you are not willing to pester them. Because of love, you feel distressed. You can't base your pain on the other person, but respect the other person's choice and don't make the other person embarrassed, right? A person who doesn't attach importance to you, all your compromises and pandering just magnify your sense of worthlessness in the eyes of the other party. A woman who has no sense of value, not because the other side doesn't want you, but because you give up yourself, others will never attach importance to you.
