Never touch the topic that girls hate most. If you touch a topic that girls hate most, you can only lie on the girls' friends list and become a familiar super invincible abnormal stranger. Today, I would like to summarize the most annoying topic of conversation for girls. In fact, the fun and hate may be between the same topics.
The first minefield: "Why do you ignore me?"
When many brothers send messages to girls, as long as the other party does not return immediately, they will brush the screen like crazy. "What are you doing? Why don't you pay attention to me? Are you busy? Remember to reply to me when you see the news later." The girl must pay attention to you by any second. Isn't he busy? Can't we have another meeting? Do people live to talk with you? Who do you think you are? Once you brush the screen, don't say you want girls to like you. It's also normal to pull black. So don't question girls in the form of screen brushing. I really hate this. Even if you are really in love, she will annoy you because of this behavior.
The second minefield: "Have you eaten?"
This sentence is like turning on the tracking mode all the time. Did you ask the girl to get up in the morning? Have you had breakfast yet? Ask her if she has eaten at noon? What did you eat? Did you finish dinner at night? I want to tell you that when girls face such a problem, they must be complaining: "This person is so boring every day. He is either eating or sleeping. Is there nothing else to talk about except eating?" So if you don't have a better opening, don't try to make things useful even if you don't talk. If the girl starts to feel good about you, the next week, good morning, good night and good afternoon. Girls' good feelings towards you will be erased by yourself, and even hate you at the beginning.
The third minefield: "Where did you play? You haven't come back so late"
When many people first met their sister, if they found her still awake in the middle of the night, they would like to ask, want to show their concern, and are curious about the girl's life. They unintentionally regard themselves as someone else's boyfriend. Instead, the girl will think you are so wordy, and feel that their private space has been invaded. Girls will think that you treat girls as a casual person. If you talk, you will talk. Don't talk nonsense.
The fourth minefield is urgently invited.
When many brothers first met a girl, they wanted to invite her in the afternoon and evening, and then they kept inviting her. But girls would think that your purpose was too strong, and they were disgusted. This was the attitude of exposing their needs. Girls would have pressure and want to escape. Many brothers died in the invitation of exposing their needs. It seemed that there was nothing wrong with talking with girls at the beginning. The invitation was rejected. I didn't give up. I continued to invite and ignored you several times. Therefore, the invitation depends on the opportunity, and must be based on absolute comfort, security and attraction. Even if you are eager to invite, you should do all the preparatory work well so as to succeed.
The fifth minefield: "What are you doing?"
What I want to say is that most girls hate this prologue very much, but the proportion of the majority is more than 90%. If you can't think of a better one, you can keep silent. Don't say what you are doing. We said that the opening remarks that can make girls willing to interact with you are actually good. If you are not familiar with girls, you can find some entry points. Hot topics, funny jokes, and the ones related to girls are better. For example, if a girl is a nurse or a doctor, you can talk to her about the recent medical disputes, topics and news on the Internet. If you don't know, you can talk to her about gossip. Ninety nine percent of the girls are interested in her.
