What kind of experience is it for a woman to open her heart and lungs in her feelings, lower her principles and pay for men, and finally get cold violence from men? Should this relationship continue? If you pay a lot in love, you will get a husband's hot and cold. You are more and more like a piece of grass in his heart. You don't know how to get in, how to get out, how to leave, and feel too wronged. So today I will teach you how to do well when you meet a man who is indifferent to you.
In fact, whether a man loves you or not really has nothing to do with how well you treat him. Male psychology determines a man's core needs and concerns. Compared with being good to men, women should learn to make her worry more effectively. 90% of men are routine. I have a visitor named uk. What is her relationship mode with her husband? No matter how hard she tries, her husband always has the attitude that you can do it without you, and never cares about uk actively. There is no need to report where she goes. She never takes a reply when sending text messages or urging her husband to go home, which makes her feel that she can't find the fulcrum of marriage and doesn't know who she is guarding this marriage for. But she still wanted to go on, unwilling to give up. Later, I taught uk to make an adjustment to her relationship mode, which almost didn't take much effort and made her husband pay more and more attention to her. Do you want to know what it is? Now their husbands will report to him wherever they go, and even take her out with them when they go out. What's the reason for this?
In fact, women devote 90% of their attention to themselves in marriage. What were you like when you were single, and what are you like now? Let yourself change from a devoted wife role to an elegant single role that focuses on yourself. This change of role is to turn his once unrequited contribution to his husband into a reward form.
For example, when a man doesn't go home, your psychological state is not why he doesn't go home, but that you don't go home is disrespect for me. Since you don't respect me, why should I value you? I used to cook breakfast for you, but now I don't need it. When your career is frustrated, if you are willing to communicate with me, I will sincerely comfort you. If you vent all your feelings of failure in your work on me, then I am sorry, I am your married wife, not your gas receiver. If you smile at me more, I will dress up and repay you. You care more about me. My eyes are full of eyes that love you.
This role change will make men's rightful attitude become that we are equal. All my efforts are based on your attitude. In this state, you can cultivate a man who respects you and loves you. The role mentality of a woman determines the state of a man, but you must live independently in any case. All your initiatives are derived from the attitude of a man. Don't underestimate this psychological skill, which has a strong stop loss effect on worse relationships. On the contrary, girls, you should remember that the adjustment of mentality and role is greater than blindly paying for men.
