How can you make a good impression on someone when you meet them for the first time and make them like you? Here are five chat rules. Learning these five dating chat rules can make you leave a good impression on the other party, and also make the other party like you more.
1. Good at capturing topics
If you want to make the chat sustainable, you need to find more topic points. How can you capture the topic points? Remember the principle that everything you see is a topic, and everything you see can be the starting point of a topic. In particular, what the other party shows you, what the other party wears for you, and what the other party wears are all topics. What the other party wants you to see will show up, such as the other party's circle of friends. The other party is more willing to talk with you only after capturing such topics.
2. Be good at expressing similarities and feelings
For example, when the other person mentions something and publishes his own values, you can express your own identity. Show similar feelings and values, and the other person will feel like a friend at first sight. When chatting, the other person expresses his opinion, and you can follow his opinion to express the same opinion.
3. Confess some insignificant shortcomings
Don't package yourself too perfectly, because if you are too perfect, the other party will feel that you are distanced from him, so it is no problem to properly show your insignificant shortcomings. Of course, before you confess your minor shortcomings, you should be a person who is admired, recognized and envied by the other party in some way. If you don't show any good aspects and come up to confess your small shortcomings, it will definitely not work. Because after you show your strength in some aspect, let the other party still admire you. Then you expose some small shortcomings to make the other party feel that you are particularly real and a little cute.
4. Show more love for life and work
An enthusiastic person is more likely to influence and infect people. At the same time, everyone likes positive energy and positive people. So we should show more of our love for life or work, what are your hobbies and interests, what are your expectations and plans for work, etc. The other party can feel a positive energy through your expression, I feel that if I am with you, the future will be promising.
5. Be good at extending the interesting points of the topic
In particular, the topics led by the other party prove to be topics of interest to the other party. If the other party asks a question, it can't just be answered in a few short sentences, so that the other party has no incentive to continue to ask better questions. You should show your enthusiasm, and show the extension of these topics, so that the other party can talk more and more. For example, if the other party asks you what your occupation is, you can directly answer your occupation in one sentence. If the other party continues to ask, you will have a feeling of checking your account. You can answer "I am a junior high school teacher. When dealing with children in junior high school, sometimes I can make you angry, but sometimes it is very funny. I told you something very funny happened some time ago." This kind of chat can continuously extend the topic, and also show your enthusiasm for the other party's topic.
The above are just a few skills for first time meeting and dealing with each other. To make the other person impressed with you and like you more, it is very important to master the skills when chatting. If you don't know the skills of chatting, it is easy to kill the day, so it is very necessary for everyone to master some chat skills.
