Some people always say that "women chase men, which means the gauze on the next floor; men chase women, which means the mountain on the next floor", while others think the opposite is true. In real life, everything is different from person to person.
Many men don't understand why they can't catch up with each other.
Despite some women's poor hardware conditions (of course, those who only pay attention to your money and appearance do not have much need to continue to pursue her, unless you are just greedy for others' beauty and figure.) Most of the reason is that your method is not correct and always enters a strange misunderstanding.
Let's talk about the five major mistakes that are easy to enter when chasing girls:
1. Stubborn, unable to keep a distance:
Smart people always know when to appear and when not to appear. There is a certain truth in the saying that distance produces beauty.
One of them is that when pursuing girls, they want to pester others all day long. Send messages all day long, sometimes even stop at people's doorstep.
Another type is the on call type. As soon as a girl calls him, she immediately shows up and asks him to do something.
Both of them are undesirable. Note that you two are not officially together.
When a girl's tone has become impatient, stop and don't disturb her for the time being. After she has passed the irritability, go to find her. If she has been bothering you, you should be wise and give up.
As time goes by, the other person will feel that you can come and go at your beck and call, and it will become worthless. Your arbitrary command will become a matter of course.
If you want her to like you and stay with you, she must feel that you are important and reluctant to leave you.
2. The purpose of early exposure is to talk about love all day long:
After the confession, some people like to punch in every day and say to the girl, "I like you", "I really like you", "Can you stay with me", "Why can't you give me a chance", "Can't you even try"?
This useless communication, no matter how many times, will not change the result