There are many cases of breaking an appointment:
The first kind: when I promised, I would definitely come, but no one came at the appointed time, nor did I tell my friends in advance. This kind of situation is extremely bad and easy to be pulled black by friends.
The second kind: when you promise to come when you are free, it means that you respect your friends. If you have something to do, you may not be able to come. You gave your friends a shot in advance. Breaking an appointment can be understood, but you should explain to your friends in advance.
The third kind: I could have made an appointment, but I couldn't make an appointment if I received something urgent to deal with temporarily. In this case, we must call our friends to explain the situation, express our apologies, win their understanding, and invite them to dinner some other day. Ordinary friends will also understand, and the boat of friendship will not overturn.
In fact, in any case, it is a bad thing to keep an appointment. But people's reputation in the Jianghu is very important. If you really can't keep your appointment, you must tell your friends in advance, apologize and try to understand. At the same time, arrange your own schedule.
The most important thing in interpersonal communication is to keep faith. A man is a great man. One spittle and one nail. Once he speaks, he can never recover. Honesty and trustworthiness are the foundation of his life.
1、 The plan did not become fast. Due to the change of the situation, it is really unable to fulfill the commitment. This situation is understandable. However, you must explain the situation to the other party and seek understanding.
2、 Some people make promises lightly but falsely, knowing that they are not within the scope of their own ability, making promises indiscriminately, making them look like fat people, making them feel guilty and hurting others and themselves.
3、 Two families raise donkeys and donkeys are thin. Two people repair ships and leaks. If they can do a good job by themselves, they must rely on others.
In principle, breaking an appointment cannot happen frequently or frequently, but it is also extremely difficult to keep it on time every time. No matter what the reason is (one of your parents has a sudden illness, you suddenly feel extremely unwell, or you encounter an event that cannot be evaded, resulting in a time conflict, etc.), you should honestly and sincerely explain and apologize to the other party in advance, and briefly explain the reason. For the person who has been broken the appointment, it is a disappointing and frustrating experience to be broken the appointment. After the event, it is more necessary to make a sincere apology to the other party again and buy a gift to express gratitude. This is especially true of the relationship between male and female friends. Take specific and proactive actions to gain understanding and understanding from the other party. As long as it is not deliberately and maliciously "pigeon up", I believe that the person who is broken will push himself to others and be reasonable and forgiving.
