Some people in life just want to deliberately provoke and quarrel, to irritate you and embarrass you. How can we deal with this situation with high EQ? Here's a move for you to embarrass the aggressor.
If you don't win a fight, you will lose if you are provoked. The contest between people wins not words but attitudes. Today, I will teach you a simple and easy move. There are only two kinds of people who challenge you. One is boring, very incompetent, and has been addicted to the mouth, reflecting the sense of existence and superiority. Another kind is insidious and bad, in order to irritate you and achieve other goals.
Why did you quarrel with them? Whoever is serious loses. The best way is to despise him psychologically and tell yourself who you are? You deserve my anger. But be calm on your face. If it's hard to do it, try the following move. When he finishes saying something offensive to you, stop talking nonsense. You set your eyes on a point, look at the distance or the ground, and then count from one to ten in your heart. This ten second time is enough to make him feel overwhelmed, and you can calm down. Most people actually stop when they get here. It's like nothing ever happened to you. What should you do? It seems generous. If he dares to continue to provoke you, get up and leave. The expert can also give him a meaningful smile, which not only keeps his dignity, but also shows his attitude. Why do you do this? Remember, What scares people is not how much you can argue or fight, but that they don't know what you think.
