How to pick up an unknown girl? Picking up a conversation is a performance of being resourceful and flexible. Unfortunately, we never learned it in school. Today, I will help you to sum up three points, especially the third one.
The first one is to transform conspiracy and public conspiracy.
There is no routine in the world. Sincerity is the best old routine. Speak your inner words face to face and directly, which is called turning conspiracy into public conspiracy. You go straight up to him and tell him: "Hello, I'm XXX, and I have been watching you attentively for a month. I think if I had been so diligent when I was studying, I might have gone to Peking University and Tsinghua University to get to know you. Do you think you can give me a chance? If not, it doesn't matter. Keep watching."
The method of transforming conspiracy and public conspiracy is very effective in many places. If you speak frankly about your inner thoughts, it will often have unexpected effects.
Second, fishing chat.
The word "fishing law enforcement" is not very good, and fishing pickup is not very pleasant, but it is very vivid. The image is fishing, not hooking. Fishing means that if you want to take the first offer, you must have a bait. You must pay a little. You can't force yourself to hook. Unless you are beautiful or handsome, it is really immoral to hook directly. Would you like to pick up a girl and buy a cup of hot coffee in winter? In most cases, she won't refuse, or buy a movie ticket directly, rush to the girl who wants to ride now and ask her what time it is? Whether she says she knows or not, you can answer that there is a movie at 4:00. Can I invite you to watch it? I don't know if you will agree, but my ticket has already been bought. So when I say fishing chat up, I don't mean to be derogatory. It means to learn to pay first, even if it doesn't work, the probability will always increase.
Third, manufacturing intersection.
The reason why we use manufacturing instead of searching is that it is a little more thorough. Look for what you can find. If you can't find it, you can only make it. Do you like to be bald? He said yes. It's nice of you to say that I like it too. This is called finding intersections. You said you like bald hair, he said I don't like it, you said I used to like it, but I can also not like it later, which is called making intersection. People always converge, so since ancient times, three elements are very important, blood, industry and geography.
Are you from Xiamen? He said yes. You say I am, too. This is called geography. He said no, I am from Shanghai. You're right. My seventh aunt and his second uncle's in laws are also from Shanghai. This is called making intersection.
Article 3 It can be used at any time. Chat up is not just a flirtation, but a key way to break through the interpersonal comfort zone.
