Many Laotie people have this question: How do you think girls like me? In fact, whether a girl likes you can be seen from her behavior. It can be seen from the four behaviors of a girl that she is sincere or playful towards you.
The first kind: chat is not enthusiastic and dating is not active
Getting along with such girls always makes people suspect that they have entered the "Ice Age". A message is always sent back after a long time, and she can always magically ignore the time, and never say "sorry, I was busy just now, only to see the message.".
It was not easy to reply to the message, either "Hmm" or "Oh", or a series of facial expressions. Her participation in the topic you started is not very high. Often you are still trying to make a conversation, telling you that you are "going to sleep", "something", "going to take a bath" without a word, and cutting off the topic directly, never returning.
When you make an invitation with enthusiasm, she always happens to have something to do. If you told you to work overtime or have something to do temporarily one or two times, it may not be a deliberate excuse, but she always refuses, then you have to weigh it in your mind.
The second kind: chat enthusiastically, but do not accept invitations
This kind of girl chat has positive feedback on you, and even can actively find topics, but the topics will not revolve around you two, and will most likely avoid talking about emotional issues. If you think there is a play, you should invite her. Unexpectedly, she always has all kinds of legitimate reasons to refuse.
This kind of girl may really have no feelings for you. She is just talkative and likes to make friends. Maybe they already have a family, or there are more fresh fish in the pond.
Most of the above two girls are not interested in you. If you really like her, you don't know how to pursue her correctly and how to make her interested in you. You can secretly believe the word "pursue" in Lizi, and I will help you!
The third kind: chat is not very enthusiastic, but will accept the invitation
This kind of girl often returns messages after a long time, which may be busy with work or other things, but she will explain the reason when replying, because she does not want to cause misunderstanding and leave a bad impression on you.
Maybe she seldom sends messages on her own initiative, but as long as she receives messages, she will respond enthusiastically. You will find that even if your content is not attractive enough, she can still find the key points and continue the topic. If you make an invitation, she may refuse to accept it, but as long as you insist, she will accept it.
These girls don't know how to express their ideas accurately by chatting, or they are rather reserved, afraid that they will not be treasured if they take the initiative too much.
For this kind of girl, you can take the initiative to chat with her, show her your availability, and show her your high value and attractiveness. For example, you can praise her and talk about future plans in the chat.
The fourth kind: chat warmly and accept invitations
This kind of girl is basically very fond of you, but the purpose of some girls' dating is not to fall in love with you. Either eat or drink, or use you as an ATM.
There must be a powerful group of girlfriends behind the girls who eat and drink. It is called "to be brave and investigate", but in fact, it is "to go whoring for nothing". To sum up with a doggerel: sisters hold hands, walk behind the spare tire, pay for consumption, talk to me and slip away. If you want to make an appointment alone, overtime is an excuse. It's not my heartlessness, it's just your ugliness.
Grabbing food and drink is blatant, greedy for money, and even more unscrupulous. First of all, this kind of girl will definitely choose high-end places for dating. Dining is a star rated restaurant, and walking is a luxury business circle. If you have the opportunity, you must go to the mall. Of course, she will not ask you to pay. After all, there are "intimate" shopping guides who are working hard to sell. At this time, the female students show their eager eyes and are reluctant to let go. Some boys can't understand the situation, I bought the bill for the girl without saying anything.
There is also the kind of drama type scum girl who openly and secretly asks for red envelopes when the festival comes, and usually doesn't forget to sell miserably, which is even more shocking. Some boys want to give help in time of need, which can definitely impress girls. They pay money without saying anything. As a result, they lose their wives and lose their soldiers.
It is also easy to test such girls. First, we filter by time and place. If she always likes to go to places with high consumption, asks you to pay every time, and is always dissatisfied with the schedule, be alert. Is she a time manager.
Another is to see if she is willing to have physical contact with you. You can say, "Hey, don't move, there is something on her hair" and touch her hair, or "I find your hand is so small", take the opportunity to hold her hand. If she likes you, she will cooperate with your action. But we should pay attention to the sense of propriety, and we must give priority to gentlemen.
Conclusion:
Finally, I want to tell you that you should never chase a girl with the idea of "spending money for her". On the one hand, people's psychological expectations will continue to rise, paying for her is a bottomless pit; Second, the amount of money spent should be determined according to the degree of intimacy. For example, it is inappropriate to send 99 roses as soon as you know them.
Moreover, purposeful spending is always disappointing, because you only touched yourself and did not know the needs of girls. Girls like pears, but you gave them apples. Unfortunately, she is also allergic to apples. Isn't it self defeating? What's more, love is not a business at all. The love gained with money will eventually disappear because of money.
