We sometimes want to forget someone, especially after a relationship ends. We want to forget, but it is often difficult to forget. This is probably "drinking to ease our worries". Some people say that time will let us forget our pain and troubles, and time can heal everything. So what's the best way to learn to forget someone?
1. Lost all contact information
For those feelings that are impossible, in fact, only by letting go can we make ourselves happier. For those who are impossible, what we need to do is to learn to forget. Even if we used to like this person, it is already in the past. If you really want to forget a person, the first thing to do is to delete all the contact information of the other person. You can't make phone calls or send text messages. Because if we don't contact each other, we will gradually forget. Otherwise, it is difficult to do it. In fact, we should not have illusions about past love, or we will only be hurt in the end, right? You should know how the person who broke up is doing or is not good. At that time, it has nothing to do with you. You have to put him down really, so that you can wait for your own love.
2. Do what you love and let it go.
This method is also called Love Transfer Dafa. If you want to quickly forget someone, you can do what you like. If you want to eat food, you can eat good food. If you want to keep fit, you can take good exercise. If you like traveling, you can take a free trip. Find the best way to let go and try to forget.
3. Write down the detestable and hateful shortcomings of the unforgettable person.
As the saying goes, "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder." Emotion blinds the eyes and only sees his bright spots. Find a piece of paper to write at least ten of his shortcomings. The more you write, the finer the better. Even when you eat, you should write on it. After writing, look carefully at the shortcomings of this page and you will find that he is just a vulgar man and a scum man. Naturally, he gave up the reason to miss him.
4. Look for alternatives as soon as possible.
The core reason why we can't forget a person is that no one can take her place in your mind, or you think that this person is too important to you, or you are trapped in the whirlpool of feelings, or in the confusion of relationships. However, no matter what, only another person occupies his position, replaces him, and forgets him, can the speed be faster.
Many things, always in the experience before they know that the gains and losses can not be their own. Just like feelings, only after pain, can we know how to protect ourselves; If you are too foolish, you will know how to insist and give up at the right time. Let's learn to give up, turn around and leave before we cry. What we exchange with tears is not reliable; Let's learn to give up, bury yesterday in our hearts and leave the best memories; Let's learn to give up, so that each other can have a easier start. Holding on will only lead you to indulge in memory and pain and become depressed. Let go and let TA go with the wind of memory. You will find the other side of the sky, and you will feel the fragrance of life and the warmth of the sun.
