People who like to be teachers are often unpopular, especially those who are generally good at teaching. But what should we do when we meet someone who likes to be a teacher? I hope the following suggestions can help you.
1. A tooth for a tooth. Can not do sincere respect and tolerance, it is also difficult to tolerate and flatter. Then, try to cure the person with its own way. You also try to be a teacher for the other party, and make a mirror for him. People who are "good teachers" may be aware of the problem of their own way of speaking.
2. Keep your requirements boundaries. One of the important points is to distinguish between your communication needs and those of others, and ask yourself why you want to have this conversation with them. When the other party likes to be a teacher, it is actually to arouse our attention, hoping to find a sense of existence in the dialogue and meet the needs of being respected. If we directly refute, it is like two children fighting for toys, ignoring the toys scattered around, and finally becoming meaningless noise.
3. Decline. Rejection is a kind of knowledge. Don't be a good man. Politely tell the other party that you have your own way to deal with this matter. Everyone has his own way of dealing with the world and solving problems. Tell him that you also have your own way. It can timely interrupt the unpleasant forced "teaching".
4. People who like to be teachers have one thing in common: they are self righteous and think what they say is right. Such a person is born with a warm and kind-hearted heart. He will come to you when he has something to say and talk about. Such a person should not be offended. Even if he says something wrong, or you don't like listening, don't show it. You can only listen to it one ear at a time, wear a hat for him, and make him leave happily. People who like to be teachers are thin skinned and have weak self-esteem. They boast in front of you. If you are impatient and give him a few words, he can't keep his face in public, and he will hate you all his life. There must be such people around you. Be careful not to hurt your harmony.
5. Learn to listen. He who likes to be a teacher has no bad intention, but he thinks what he says is reasonable. If you think he is right, just listen to him for a few words. If he is wrong, just laugh it off or do what you should do. Don't use words to stimulate him. At that time, everyone will be unhappy and hurt.
6. Keep a distance. When he says something about him, just do what you want, but don't show disgust from your expression or words. It's better to keep smiling. He who likes to be a teacher is also a person who knows his own interests. When he sees that you are not on the same track, he will return with his own interests. This will not hurt the harmony.
