Such people who like to be teachers often have their own independent thoughts. They also have their own set of rules for doing things and are good at thinking in work or life. However, they often have a strong desire for self-expression, and have a strong confidence in their own thoughts, behaviors, and ways of doing things. They feel very good about themselves. However, extreme and paranoid judgments about people and things are also very easy to occur.
People who like to be teachers are generally more confident, but this confidence goes beyond a certain limit. Such people always judge others by their own standards, so that people around them always have a sense of urgency. In modern society, interpersonal relationships are complex, and we will encounter many problems that we cannot solve by ourselves, which makes people feel powerless and afraid. If the people around you have difficulties and don't know what to do, you can extend your hand to help him, wake up for his next plan, and point out the way, so that the other party will be extremely grateful to you and have the subtle sense of giving help in time of need. This is not a good way to be a teacher, but a normal and necessary exhortation. However, if the people around you always pretend to be educators, and act like they know it well, and impose their own opinions on you when you don't need them, it will make people feel very uncomfortable.
In life, there are many people who are "good teachers". How to get along with them?
1. Respect.
Some people, in fact, have no bad intentions, but also have a kind heart.
No one is perfect, we might as well have more understanding and tolerance.
Listen patiently, smile and learn from each other.
2. Listen.
Listen more and speak less.
A person talks to himself. If he talks too much, he will become thirsty and bored.
3. Declined.
Rejection is a kind of knowledge, and you should never be a good man.
I can respond politely to each other. I have my values and methodology, and I don't want others to point out my life.
4. Transfer.
Sometimes, in order to take care of the face of both parties and maintain interpersonal relations, you can change the topic to avoid unhappiness.
5. Alienation.
I can't afford to be provoked!
Those who fail to make progress in the above four methods should be kept at a distance.
